darlingdiana(sub female){Owned}
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3 hours ago •
Jul 12, 2026
► TopekaDom wrote: I often equate being a Dom with being a sculptor.
One takes a hunk of rough rock and stare at it til you see the glorious figure within. Then, you peck away the unneeded chips and buff out the rough edges until the final figure is fully released. The thing that really gets me off is an s type who is willing to put themselves in my hands for all of that. The pain, the structure, the correction, the education. YES, this is why You are the REAL McCoy. Exactly what an s type is seeking. Please start teaching Doms… |
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3 hours ago •
Jul 12, 2026
► TopekaDom wrote: I often equate being a Dom with being a sculptor.
One takes a hunk of rough rock and stare at it til you see the glorious figure within. Then, you peck away the unneeded chips and buff out the rough edges until the final figure is fully released. The thing that really gets me off is an s type who is willing to put themselves in my hands for all of that. The pain, the structure, the correction, the education. As Michanangelo said “ The sculpture is already complete within the marble block, before I start my work. It is already there, I just have to chisel away the superfluous material.”. 
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darlingdiana(sub female){Owned}
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3 hours ago •
Jul 12, 2026
► JaredMayer wrote: I wouldn't say that I love being a dominant (or a sadist), it's just what I am.
I like being in control and having the sub do what I say just because I told them to, and I like that they will suffer to please me, but equally I like that I can just make them do what's good for them instead of having to convince them. Like, maybe it's an autistic thing, but so many people around me seem to continually make obviously wrong choices over and over again, ignoring their rational mind in favor of appeasing some sentiment or emotion, and it gets so tedious. I am unable to see past one line here. It misses the largest responsibility of being a Dom. Control doesn’t have any value just because someone obeys. A sub is putting an immense amount of trust and vulnerability in your hands. Every expected task, correction, or rule should have a designed plan, like growth, protection, structure, service or mutual benefit. Or it’s pretty much only ‘Simon Says.’ Authority isn’t the goal, what is done with that authority is what separates being a trustworthy and safe Dom. |
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