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How far would you be willing to travel for the one build in LTR Dynamic ?

Knightsundere Knightsundere​(sub male)
2 months ago • May 2, 2026
Knightsundere​(sub male) • May 2, 2026
As a one-off? Wherever. If it turned into a relocation? Somewhere that has at least 30% English proficiency I think :'). TPE arrangements are a little spooky to consider in situations where you legitimately, actually can't help yourself if something goes wrong.

I'm happy to learn my partner's local language but some are just too difficult to conclusively say yes, I'll be able to learn this in a reasonable, safe timeframe. Or at least that's my personal consideration, I'm not super adept at foreign language learning (have my hands full with Swedish and that's about as easy as it gets). Most difficult I could manage would be Russian, I think? That's at least a semi-similar alphabet.
esotericBrat esotericBrat​(sub female)
1 month ago • Jun 10, 2026
esotericBrat​(sub female) • Jun 10, 2026
For me the distance doesn't matter as much, in fact I actually prefer when there's a bit of distance just so there's time to establish legitimate compatibility without the huge hormonal dump that clouds one's judgement. 🤷 It's actually a bit of a safeguard for me because of how service-oriented I am with people/my desire to improve people's lives however I can. 💀 It's A LOT more difficult to take advantage of if there's oh so little I can realistically help with over the internet.. It's also easier to weed people out who have bad intentions.

That said, distance may not matter BUT if the eventuality is for me to move to my partner's country then I would have to consider sociological/cultural factors and whether I could realistically live there.. Like I had someone in Qatar message me recently and I'd likely end up imprisoned if I were to move there.. I'm too outspoken when it comes to injustice, and their government isn't a fan of being bad-mouthed.. 🙃 I'm not going to be one of those ignorant "90 Day Fiancé" individuals that doesn't do any precursory research and subsequently behaves in a disrespectful (or illegal) manner.. no thanks
MidSummerDream MidSummerDream​{Together}
2 hours ago • Jul 16, 2026
MidSummerDream​{Together} • Jul 16, 2026
We did it! You believe in each other, and time can happen. He visits me every month, we talk on the phone every day, and we do the check-ins. We keep it vanilla at first. We dated for about six months when the feelings got deep. After seven months, he wanted me to stay for three weeks to see how his life was. He wanted me to know that he treats me well in public and in private. He went out of his way even before this. He wanted to make sure I had a real ID and even took me to the appointment so that I could fly to him. Because things changed, we had to make it work. I had an allergic reaction on my face and had to reschedule, but I told him that he needed to heal. We kept taking photos and calling, and we kept being mature. I know there are good days and bad days, but someone cares. They will move mountains for you. Eight to nine months later, I flew to him, he flew to Illinois rented a moving van, and we put all my stuff in it. We drove from Illinois to Nevada. It did take four days, and it was Labor Day. We got back on time We made it on time because he could only take so many days off. It’s been a year and four months, and we’re still going strong. We have two trips coming up. We’re going to California late July and August, and we’re going to Mackinac Island. The best thing is to find someone who grows and heals with you and creates more with you. A bond happens unexpectedly, but all works out when you don’t look and just flow. Allow it to be there when it’s time. Don’t rush take it slow as slow with patience is the best.