| House Talion(dom male) |
6 days ago •
Jul 28, 2026
Proof is in the pudding, its either irl or online.
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| Little Vixie(sub female){Mgh30} |
5 hours ago •
Aug 3, 2026
As someone who has done things with someone who has not given me his identity, but played with him.... you need to leave him. Everything to me is a red flag. He wants you to trust him to basically give yourself entirely to him, but he "cant" tell you who he is? That is a safety concern. All it makes me think about is all the men, women, and those in between who are in this exact situation of being locked in a house with no bodily autonomy except its not given a BDSM title. The slave title is a cop out in my opinion. I believe he wants your desire to be owned to outweigh the logical side that this sounds abusive as fuck.
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| EmergingSwitch(switch male) |
3 hours ago •
Aug 3, 2026
@grumpyfrog
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... he has told me he is a public figure and needs to keep his identity secure. "A public figure?" Oh please. Who the fuck does this guy think he is, James Bond? I'm pretty sure Pussy Galore knew James's real identity even while he was casually smacking her around to extract information. This is an obvious cover story designed to both gaslight you and stroke his own ego. Quote:
Over the months I talked with him and his long time slave of 20 years. Quote:
He told me then that his long time slave had passed away unexpectedly while he was out of the country. Told me he didn't handle it well and just shut down for a month. I know that exact pain. This sounds way too convenient to me. You talked to someone claiming to be his "slave of 20 years" and then they mysteriously die before you get a chance to verify their identity either? How absolutely perfect for him! The greater likelihood is that this person was an accomplice trying to lull you into a false sense of security. They're probably alive and well grooming other women into sex trafficking as we speak. He likely knew how to push all the right buttons to elicit your sympathy. You said that "I know exactly that pain." I suspect he knew that you knew that pain as well -- which is why he weaponized it against you. Quote:
Then one month before the 6 month date he just ghosted. He came back after just over a month, I bitched him out and he said good bye. He was doing you a favour at this point. Your response should have been, "goodbye and good riddance." You deserve [i}way[/i] better than a scumbag like this. Quote:
I haven't felt a pull to anyone as hard as I feel a pull to him. Even before his loss. I know there's a fuck load of red flags none of which he has ever tried to hide. The fact that he hasn't tried to hide them should be even more of a red flag to you. Ever see the show Breaking Bad? He's taking a page right of The Gus Fring Handbook For Social Camouflage: "hide in plain sight." When he tells you straight up all of the heinous things he wants to do to you and your family, you take him at his word. The instinct to tell yourself, "he wouldn't be this honest about them if they were anything other than standard kink practise" is exactly what he wants you to think. Quote:
The one thing I can't get past is he wants to get my mother to give him oral. I have told him I do not think that it will work, I know my mom what with she's my mom. He just told me today how he plans to do it, during the week that he visits me he said he's going to send videos of him beating me and using me and having me thank him afterwards to her. Then he will give her the proposition to blow him to make the beatings stop. Oh, this guy is a piece of fucking work! What you're describing is a ransom situation. Do you know what should make the beatings stop? You telling him to stop.. If that isn't the standard he adheres to, then you need to RUN! Now! This man is dangerous and you need to sever all ties as quickly as possible. He doesn't sound to me like a BDSM practitioner at all. When he speaks of his "slaves," I don't think he's speaking of roleplay. I think he's speaking of the business he's likely in: literal sex slavery. Think Jeffrey Epstein or Peter Scully. I could very well be wrong, but I don't think you can afford to make that assumption. |
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