Just Jessy(switch gender queer){Owned} |
3 years ago •
Mar 27, 2021
exceptions to asexuality (gray asexual)
3 years ago •
Mar 27, 2021
Just Jessy(switch gender queer){Owned} • Mar 27, 2021
Heya, I'm Jessy, I'm a nonbinary pansexual gray asexual who is currently in a relationship with a super amazing trans woman. When we first met, I told her I was asexual because I'd literally only been sexually attracted to one person in my entire life up to that point. She happens to be the second person I've been sexually attracted to. She doesn't understand how I can be asexual and still be sexually attracted to and even enjoy having sex with her. I've told her numerous times I'm gray asexual, so basically, there are exceptions to the rule. Like if you generally don't like eating pork, but when your grandma makes her special pork, it's your absolute favorite and you love it. She still doesn't really get it and is often concerned that I'm faking being sexually attracted to her just to make her happy. I've told her numerous times that's not true, but I'm also very difficult to read (even empaths agree it's really hard to read me), so I don't blame her for thinking I'm uninterested when I'm actually very interested.
So with all that being said, are there other gray asexuals out there who generally don't really like the idea of sex or sexual things, but you have people who are exceptions to the rule? |
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