Just 7 questions that are both fun and that will make you think.

1. If you were to implement a 100% TPE dynamic tomorrow, what is the very first mundane, daily decision you'd want someone to take over (or give up)?

2. What is your ultimate fantasy regarding completely managing someone's life, or having yours completely managed?

3. If your dynamic had to switch to a completely different archetype (e.g., from strict D/s to Brat/Tamer, or Daddy/little to Primal) for one weekend, which would be the most fun to explore?

4. What is a dynamic type you used to judge or misunderstand until you learned more about it?

5. If you had to describe your current (or ideal) dynamic using only a movie title, what would it be?

6. If someone sent or you sent to someone a physically locked box in the mail and held the key, what would be the most agonizingly fun thing for it to contain?

7. If your dynamic was a genre of movie (e.g., romantic comedy, psychological thriller, fantasy epic), what would it be and why?

The very first thing I’d surrender to go into it but just dip a toe in the water would be what I’m allowed to wear each day. Not in a dramatic leather harness way, (or maybe that too) but just the quiet control of having my clothes (or lack of them) chosen for me every morning, especially if the texture or fit reminded me of my situation constantly. A small, constant, reminder that even the most basic decisions about my body are no longer mine.

Having mine completely managed. I fantasize about someone (calm, intelligent, slightly cruel in that quiet psychological way taking the reins. Afterall I did consent and I would want them to push me a little harder than I'd planned. Experiencing a near total restructuring my daily existence so thoroughly that I stop thinking of myself as the main character in my own life. The ultimate version would be coming to find I’m happier, calmer, and more useful when I’m no longer in charge of how almost anything is decided or done.

Brat/Tamer. I’ve spent so much of my life trying to be “good” that I think it might be a salutory being a complete brat for a while, deliberately pushing buttons, being mouthy, and then getting put back in my place. Especially if I knew the other person was confident and calm and had no qualms about putting me back where I belonged. It probably would be exhausting and maybe scary, but I've always wondered what's way down there in my psyche.

Total Power Exchange / 24/7 dynamics? I used to think they were either fake or incredibly toxic for both the Dom and sub. Now I'm not so sure that for some people it can't be deeply peaceful. I still don’t think I would really ever want to do full 24/7 in real life, but I am less likely to judge those who can.

Maybe "Secretary" when I am in an unstable, wonderment mood. Or, "A Midsummer's Sex Comedy". Or sometimes "Quills".

A magic daily journal that I would have to fill out every day in complete honesty including my inner thoughts about my identity as a "nice", kind person that I knew they were going to read every word of.

Probably a sappy rom-com with the com part written by women who do stand up comedy focusing on relationships and the rom part by people who mean well, but don't have a clue and sort of know it, and that ends up happily ever after. Because that seems how real life tends to unfold except for the happily ever after part.