Adrenaline Play Only

Adrenaline Play Only

DerSiebteHimmel​(sub female) • Nov 10, 2025

I’m not very experienced, so I feel a bit confused. I’ve met a few people who have been into BDSM for a long time , this is exactly what I need as a beginner, and no, they’re not just random people from the internet.
Impact play, role play, and other nice things are part of my interests.

But they made it clear that sex would be included too. Can you explain to me why it can’t just be a session without intimacy? Wouldn’t that be satisfying enough for them?

Right now I’m more interested in adrenaline and endorphins than oxytocin, to be honest. So, is it worth it to keep looking for a partner who can give me that, or does it always lead to sex in the end?

Please don’t laugh if my question sounds silly, I’m just starting to understand all this

Defender​(dom male) • Nov 10, 2025

Only do what you are comfortable with.

But in fairness to the partner, make it very clear from the outset that it will not end with sex - because ruined expectation is a bummer!


This policy may reduce the number of suitors, but hey.....

DerSiebteHimmel​(sub female) • Nov 10, 2025

@Defender
I am straightforward, I state what I want from the start. That’s why I feel a bit embarrassed. I understand that a man’s natural reaction is to dominate sexually, it’s physiological. But do “professionals” exist? People for whom simply seeing submission and a red mark from a belt on the skin is enough?

YesSirDaddyDom​(dom male) • Nov 10, 2025

As a Dom, for me not every session ends in sex and often the chems involved in the anticipation and build up and then the climax of the spanking can be just as thrilling.
Sure there are dominants out there that get the sex elsewhere and would be happy to engage in a scene with you to fulfill your fantasy and they would get satisfaction from that.

I think being older and more experienced helps

DerSiebteHimmel​(sub female) • Nov 11, 2025

Both 50+, both experienced and well-respected. Well, let’s just say they couldn’t resist my irresistible charm *sarcasm*

YesSirDaddyDom​(dom male) • Nov 11, 2025

Well, If you going to be irresistably charming...

DerSiebteHimmel​(sub female) • Nov 11, 2025

I am xx

darlingdiana​(sub female)​{Master Ron} • Nov 11, 2025

This is very interesting…. And i have to admit perfect for beginning even if in dynamic that is established and there has been no play on the submissive’s part. my Master’s past and present have each been more than ok to have non penetrative sex, as their stance was when they say. I agree knowing in advance- fair is fair. It should evolve to that in each of their aspect and feelings on teaching.
As far as sex elsewhere on their behalf, i am ok with the don’t ask and don’t tell approach in the first dynamic especially. The second and current is an agreed one on one or monogamous dynamic. So yes, they are out there! They are usually more mature in age and have incredible control- which is just tantalizing and irresistible in a Dom in my POV. *adding to Christmas wish list*

DerSiebteHimmel​(sub female) • Nov 11, 2025

@darlingdiana
I agree with every word you said, especially about the self-control and the immense respect it inspires. I now understand that my desire isn’t so easily satisfied because it’s somewhat unusual. And “don’t ask, don’t tell” is the perfect approach for me right now. I’ll have to continue searching for someone for whom this format also works

House Talion​(dom male) • Nov 12, 2025

I could easily give you a session without taking nyquil afterwards, but the noises you make while we play make me extra hard and that needs to be enjoyed by someone.

Perhaps my collared sub would enjoy seeing what tools you enjoy the most while I tease your nipples with gator clips, then while your laying there after a good beating ill just bend her over kn top of you or kn some other side so yall can lock eyes while I cum inside her.