anyone actually looking?

MasterBear​(kinky butch) • Jan 6, 2020

I dont know if I am looking right now.

But I hear you !

Boring profile

Meg​(dom female)​{NotLooking} • Jan 7, 2020

Like many of the other female doms answering your page, I am not looking, but unlike them, I'm going to be blunt with you. Your profile is B.O.R.I.N.G. Oh look, another BDSM test... Because I've never seen that before.

Know it says to me when a standard BDSM test takes up the majority of a profile? That you're too lazy to bother writing a profile, and if you're too lazy to write a profile, you'll likely too lazy to be an interesting sub. And I'm too lazy to bother deciphering a BDSM test for someone who cannot be arsed to write a paragraph about themselves. If you want us to go to the effort of dreaming up fun scenarios for you, you should go to the effort of writing a profile.

Flesh it out. Add a photo. Describe your experiences, what you want, why you want it, your non/kink interests, ANYTHING that makes you just a little less one dimensional than the rest of the clamouring hoard. Remember, there are a million male subs for every female dom. Stand out, or get left behind.