SoSoinKS(dom male)
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4 months ago •
Sep 2, 2025
Saw this somewhere…
BEGINNERS GUIDE TO SPOTTING FAKE DOMS & STAYING SAFE 1) They show little or no interest in who you are as a person, your needs as a sub or your emotions, and just focus on what you will do for them. Likely to be selfish, arrogant and just after someone to abuse and have sex with. 2) They immediately expect you to call them Sir, Master or Daddy without earning that right. Shows lack of understanding of what it is to be a Dom. Probably the misogynistic, pushy/bullying type. 3) Uses text speak, is immature, lacks patience, doesn't know the terminology. Probably young and/or lacks experience. Being a Dom means taking responsibility for someone else. It requires empathy and understanding. 4) Expects you to or puts pressure on you to send nude pics early on, before trust has been established. Probably a pic hunter/sharer. May try and use it to blackmail you. 5) Tells you that you have to follow their rules without giving you a chance to negotiate them. Control-freak behaviour, likely designed to isolate you from friends/family so they can control every aspect of your life. Probably has lots of insecurities. 6) Create a gmail account so you can use Google Chat so you can chat anonymously with someone without giving away your social accounts. You can use kik instead, but its really annoying with its cam-girl adverts and is full of scammers. |
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slutboymartin(sub male){No}
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3 months ago •
Sep 29, 2025
Forgive me but Your saying men need to pay Women Whorgazmo wrote: It's really hard to get around the ones who have perfected their craft so it's a lot of frogs. I've been involved in this community for about 16 years now and the best advice I have is to 1.) make it as hard as possible for people to access you not only in-person but online as well. Men will drain your energy and feed off of it. Nothing is 'real' until you've met in-person. As well, 2.) gender roles apply first...the kink roles are irrelevant initially. Make them work for your time and escalate it little by little. The ones that are fake drop off quickly and/or don't show intention but they will drain you with endless talk before they do. 3.) Make them go to neutral ground of your choice for a first meeting. If they aren't investing money and time into you, within reason, they are looking for something short term. They shouldn't be getting jack squat from you, especially exclusivity, until they've invested to try and get to know you on your terms. 5.) Men will waste your time if you let them. Cut and run if there are glaring red flags. Move onto the next.
None of these makes finding the right person any easier it will just help you to save your energy from time wasters. Forgive me, But you are saying that "Men" are wasting Your time by by "ENDLESS CHAT" (not trying to get to know You) & unless they "INVEST MONEY" into You they're "TIMEWASTERS" Which to me Smacks of everything that I've come across with finding anyone Genuine online... I've either been told that I should PAY to talk or I'm wasting thier time & I'm not genuine (Money Does Not prove Desire or Loyalty) or I'm constantly Told by some (Who are supposed to Be Heiresses to fortunes Though Money means NOTHING to Me Personally, I'd give every penny I've Ever had for an ounce of Love) that I Should "Invest in this or that (ususlly short term Bitcoin investments) while being able to watch my phones screen DUE TO "HER" TEACHING ME (Helping me huh)? & being able to Rinse my Bank Account or using the Account I set up to trade in my Name avoiding Tax etc..(I'm No Fool)! I'd Love to know Why Women feel it's OK to Rinse Men these days?? On another Note that's sort of Related... Recrntly I SEEM TO HAVE BEEN SENT TO COVENTRY FOR BEING UNLOYAL ON HERE, which just isn't True!! Even the profile pic I've had up for over 7 years got taken down (which WAS my Own Picture of Me BTW).. Never Mind, the One place I felt relatively Safe no longer does & because Some know "Them" more than I, I've feel Oestrosised for NOTHING, BUT... Thats Another Story....Naming No Names. |
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