KnottyBunny
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
I did apologize.
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AmericanPsycho{None}
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
True maso SweetSirRendering wrote: look, she specifically denied trans people. she tried to qualify what makes a real masochist. she has no idea, so she should learn to listen. we all took time to give thoughtful answers and nobody twisted her words. if she is looking for someone who identifies as only masochist to learn from, APEX is a big group, many resources online, podcasts, blogs, here.
if she chooses to be part of a community, she may want to spend some time learning how to accept others as nobody was anything less than open and honest. no inclusive community will allow the language she used. we need to be accountable for ourselves and when we don’t know anything, we need to shut our mouths and listen, in my opinion. we were all being very nice to her. i will not continue being nice to people that deny my sister (mtf) and best friends son (ftm) or any of the many others that have a hard enough time waking up every day of their lives in the wrong body and then having to walk out bravely while some close minded people deny their existence. no. and this community agrees. read the rules. we are all human, all in this together, and nobody is more legitimate than anyone else. I would like you to explain to me what your definition of her question. You choose to take a emotional reaction of hers as your platform. Now if we are adults let’s answer her true question. Let’s be adults and leave the Karen thought process behind. Even if she didn’t agree with trans. It’s not for anyone to judge in this forum. |
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SweetSirRendering(sub female)
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
Re: True maso konvikdomination wrote: SweetSirRendering wrote: look, she specifically denied trans people. she tried to qualify what makes a real masochist. she has no idea, so she should learn to listen. we all took time to give thoughtful answers and nobody twisted her words. if she is looking for someone who identifies as only masochist to learn from, APEX is a big group, many resources online, podcasts, blogs, here.
if she chooses to be part of a community, she may want to spend some time learning how to accept others as nobody was anything less than open and honest. no inclusive community will allow the language she used. we need to be accountable for ourselves and when we don’t know anything, we need to shut our mouths and listen, in my opinion. we were all being very nice to her. i will not continue being nice to people that deny my sister (mtf) and best friends son (ftm) or any of the many others that have a hard enough time waking up every day of their lives in the wrong body and then having to walk out bravely while some close minded people deny their existence. no. and this community agrees. read the rules. we are all human, all in this together, and nobody is more legitimate than anyone else. I would like you to explain to me what your definition of her question. You choose to take a emotional reaction of hers as your platform. Now if we are adults let’s answer her true question. Let’s be adults and leave the Karen thought process behind. Even if she didn’t agree with trans. It’s not for anyone to judge in this forum. read. not agreeing with trans is everyones right to judge in this forum as it violates the very rules of the community. the admins clearly havent seen the report yet but several reports this violation because it is not acceptable. she can explain her case to the admins if it comes up. until she said that, i was having an open discussion and shared my time to discuss what she had requested. when that was said, it changed everything. Last edited by * on Thu Sep 03, 2020 5:49 am, edited 1 time in total |
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AmericanPsycho{None}
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
Admin
Maybe hiding behind admin. Is an issue. You are very capable of having convo when your attacking. But when being answered. You rely on admin
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KnottyBunny
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
omg no one said they do not agree with trans. Again twisting words honey.
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AmericanPsycho{None}
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
Re: True maso SweetSirRendering wrote: konvikdomination wrote: SweetSirRendering wrote: look, she specifically denied trans people. she tried to qualify what makes a real masochist. she has no idea, so she should learn to listen. we all took time to give thoughtful answers and nobody twisted her words. if she is looking for someone who identifies as only masochist to learn from, APEX is a big group, many resources online, podcasts, blogs, here.
if she chooses to be part of a community, she may want to spend some time learning how to accept others as nobody was anything less than open and honest. no inclusive community will allow the ourselves and when we don’t know anything, we need to shut our mouths and listen, in my opinion. we were all being very nice to her. i will not continue being nice to people that deny my sister (mtf) and best friends son (ftm) or any of the many others that have a hard enough time waking up every day of their lives in the wrong body and then having to walk out bravely while some close minded people deny their existence. no. and this community agrees. read the rules. we are all human, all in this together, and nobody is more legitimate than anyone else. I would like you to explain to me what your definition of her question. You choose to take a emotional reaction of hers as your platform. Now if we are adults let’s answer her true question. Let’s be adults and leave the Karen thought process behind. Even if she didn’t agree with trans. It’s not for anyone to judge in this forum. read. not agreeing with trans is complete everyones right to judge in this forum as it violates the very rules of the community. the admins clearly havent seen the report yet but several reports this violation because it is not acceptable. she can explain her case to the admins if it comes up. And your opinion of what she said is more important. I am confused by the fact you have full right to speak your mind. But if someone else does it’s a admin thing. |
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SweetSirRendering(sub female)
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
AriesGoddess wrote: omg no one said they do not agree with trans. Again twisting words honey.
read your words. that is exactly what you said. nice gaslighting though. |
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SweetSirRendering(sub female)
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
AriesGoddess wrote: No I am not "automatically" "impossing" anything by using the word "true".
Everyone all up in their feelings might be receiving it that way but that is not what I said. I have not said anyone is not a masochist by simply asking a question and using the word true. True to the definition. Someone could be born male but feel they are female. It does not change the fact of the definition of "male". Same holds for the definition of true or any other word for that matter. There is no spectrum of any definition or any word. The root word of definition, is definite. You may "feel" differently, but it still does not change the definition of a word. |
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AmericanPsycho{None}
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
Can you be honestly serious. That because someone doesn’t agree with you or your beliefs. That you have the upper hand
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SweetSirRendering(sub female)
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4 years ago •
Sep 3, 2020
konvikdomination wrote: Can you be honestly serious. That because someone doesn’t agree with you or your beliefs. That you have the upper hand
yes. in this case. yes. Community Standards We expect all users of THE CAGE to adhere to our community standards, all of which directly inform our approach to community moderation (see below). Our community standards apply across the site, while moderation decisions are also informed by context. 3. We will not tolerate racism, sexism, homophobia or other forms of hate-speech, or contributions that could be interpreted as such. We recognise the difference between criticising a particular practice, organisation, community or belief and attacking people on the basis of their race, religion, sex, gender, sexual orientation, disability or age. Last edited by * on Thu Sep 03, 2020 5:55 am, edited 1 time in total |
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