Miki |
5 years ago •
Dec 26, 2018
5 years ago •
Dec 26, 2018
Miki • Dec 26, 2018
Sorry to read that. Indeed "friends and family" aren't what they're cracked up to be if they cannot accept you as who you are and how you tick. Indeed there are things about each of us everyone doesn't have to particularly like but the overarching principal should be to at the very least accept you as a person.
Of course there are some limitations such is if Person A is an ax murderer or child molester, no, even family has the right to distance themselves from such a creature, but I doubt such is your case. All that having been said, a relationship dynamic where one side wants something the other is not willing or able to give is generally a dysfunctional one unless each can get past it. In your case you're a bottom and he wants you to be a switch and if you're not a switch then he either accepts it, deals with the fact that it's one fantasy he'll have to set aside.. Or move on. If he was unable to accept this yet kept the relationship going as-is instead of Friend-Zoning you-- then the whole thing would have been under a "Sword of Damocles" , so to speak. Sooner or later the objection would have reared its ugly head and the later this happens the higher the "hurt" value you would have experienced. So consider this a positive and hopefully you'll find someone else. May not seem that way out of the gate but believe me, as the cliche goes: "It's No Good If You Gotta Force It" So, as the Bear dude said (right above this post as I write) Chin up and move forward. |
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