the power of erotica

the power of erotica

Novice​(masochist male) • May 16, 2017

Why do I write erotica.

partly to please myself, explore my desires

and partly to please others, Dommes and subs alike

I think erotica is important, as a fantasy role-play, as a way to experience pleasure, get excited in a very private way

I am curious about how others see this

Does such writing serve any purpose, do you like to read it

or prefer pictures or lovely fake SM porn

Kinkylocs​(switch female){Who cares} • May 16, 2017

Muuuuuuuuuuuch prefer erotica over SM porn and pics.

Both can be useful and fun to consume (sometimes not so much), but only gives a superficial level to the play.

I prefer erotica because of the thoughts and emotions that can be included. Not to mention, erotica (as with most forms of reading) allow us to work our imagination muscles as we either imagine or put ourselves in the characters... restraints? lol (fantasy role-play as you pointed out) This can create a far more personal and enlightening experience, at least for me

Novice​(masochist male) • May 16, 2017

yes, I agree

and it can be personal as well, ever thought of that?

a true interaction between two participants

making a fantasy come true

and beyond that, roleplay

what is a favourite fantasy

dont tell I suggest one on my blog

Kinkylocs​(switch female){Who cares} • May 16, 2017

Right exactly, not everyone is able to physically be with one another and erotica us an excellent way of creating intimacy through space and time (it wasn't my first thought because me partner IS with me physically). Based on what I've read here at The Cage, the best erotica seems to come from those who are writing it for someone in particular.

Maybe as a way to explore what you think you might like as well. Who knows, maybe after writing out the scenario you don't feel that you'd actually like to do it anymore or maybe now you realize that this is exactly what you've been missing!

Novice​(masochist male) • May 16, 2017

isnt all Ds about moving beyond your limits? Don't we all deep in our hearts want to be pushed beyond that point. I love to write a cruel and fabtastic scene of torture, of deep humiliation, that I could never bear in real life. But because it is a story, I dive deep, I explore, I enjoy, end find edges that are beyond sexy. They are beyond what I ever dreamed off! I have an example here

This was all so exciting that Hollie felt her whole body was burning with pleasure, even when Elise only touched her back, her neck. She wanted her to move down towards her ass, but wasn't sure if it would work. If it would not break Elise’s role. But the miracle happened, she moved down, and now those two girlish hands were touching her, softly feeling the curves of her ass cheeks, probing the crack, and forcing Hollie’s legs apart, so she would have access the the chamber of secrets. Little pressure was required, Hollie obliged immediately. And this was all so exciting for Elise. She knew she was serving Hollie, she knew she wanted to be there, lie there and be caressed. But on the other hand, it felt good. After all they both had a great night, and Hollie did win. She could not be angry for the rest of the week, worse was to come. Since this was just a simple and more erotic act than a humiliating one. So when Hollie parted her legs Elise was well aware of what she was supposed to do! She was to slide her hands slowly from the outside of her hips, over her ass towards the crack. There the fingers would meet and with a slight pressure, allowing her nails to gently scratch the skin they would travel downwards, slowly, o so slowly. As to increase the anticipation around her small virgin hole (or were both entrances to sublime pleasure still virgin?) she would slightly let one of the fingers move inwards. The moaning of Hollie, the breathing that shuddered, they were signs she was doing a good job. Finally beyond that point she sensed the moist crevice, she felt the two lips parting o so easily. The little whore was so wet, Elise couldn’t help thinking. From that point it was going much too fast for Hollie, but she was so excited, that she was controlling a sex slave. That the lovely and good looking Elise was now her servant. The thought alone was nearly enough to make her cum. But when Elise inserted a finger, added another and then touched her clit, God she simply exploded. Pushing her body hard on those fingers, crying of joy and pleasure. Well, her parents wouldn’t hear since at that point Arsenal scored, her father was yelling, smothering the cries of joy from his devious and wild daughter.

KarterCummings​(dom female){YESS} • May 17, 2017

..I believe there is an intimacy unparalleled in written form like this, and agree it is our imaginations that make it so.

Novice​(masochist male) • May 17, 2017

the funny thing is, I am looking for years already to find a group like minded people, to share such intimacy

is it the modern age?

no one cares to read?

everyone says (s)he is very open, but is that really true

can we admit our true desires, and put them into words

when I ask, what are your desires, no one comes with even a full sentence

it is just "pain" or "being used as sex toy"

Kinkylocs​(switch female){Who cares} • May 17, 2017

It might be hard for a lay person to live up to the hopes of someone who writes fantasy but... Although I definitely desire to be dominated/dominate and to feel pain, I also need the opposite in my life to complete the duality of it all. I desire to assert my own dominance in a way that challenges my submissive to become internally aware, so that they may release the energies that keep them physically/emotionally/mentally/spiritually stagnant. I don't just want to copy something BDSMy just for the fuck of it, I want my actions, and the actions taken towards me, to have a purpose; to ultimately come from a place of love.

.... Not really erotica fantasy lol, but an ever evolving fantasy for sure.

Novice​(masochist male) • May 17, 2017

funny, I could not have said it so clearly, but I think I fully agree with you. let's say this is erotica +++

this is a way of communication, that leads to a better understanding, to a more deeply experienced Sm

wow, I need to think about it, and especially how to bring such a thing into practice. i might have said this before, I am looking for years already to let such a thing happen. What is needed is a writer capable of transforming experiences and desire and make them tailor made. And a subject that loves words, can direct desires and needs, and knows how to communicate in that direction.

is this something that could be shared with others as well, or should it just be a 1 to 1 experience?

by the way, as a writer I am a total switch as well. Although my deepest and darkest desires are the deep pain inflicted by a Goddess, I can easily serve by taking the lead. is that typical for a writer?

Kinkylocs​(switch female){Who cares} • May 17, 2017

"I am looking for years already to let such a thing happen. "

Just to clarify, do you mean finding other kinky passionate individuals to write with?

"...should it just be a 1 to 1 experience?"

Again, excise my confusion, do you mean the erotica itself?

It's funny how you say you "could SERVE by taking the lead," this is how I feel as well. I find so much joy in the surrender, but at the same time, can find great joy in using power to serve the needs of my submissive.