My SO and I have an opportunity...

My SO and I have an opportunity...

BBtheBadWolf​(switch female) • Jul 7, 2017

My SO and I have been into light bondage, blindfolds, and the lighter side of BDSM in general. We're also experienced with group sex. I'm openly bisexual and my best friend is too. She has always made it clear that she wants me but didn't pursue it because she was married in a very vanilla and monogamous relationship. To make an incredibly long story short, we have discussed the possibility of her being our sex pet. As in, occasionally join us for sex and, when she does, she would be our submissive third. She brought it up so the situation would be consensual.

Does anyone have any experience or advice for this situation?

Babykins • Jul 16, 2017

NO but if you you think all three relationships can with stand such a move then I say go for it.. but be 100% before you do... Its good in theory and fantasy...

Kinkylocs​(switch female){Who cares} • Jul 22, 2017

No specific experience like this, what's SO?

Definitely sounds hot, but similar to babykins remarks, I'd talk about it a lot before jumping in, especially if you're all good friends, because as much as we may like to believe sex doesn't change things, it usually does in some form. Feelings can become tricky, especially if there's some confusing relationship stuff going on outside these trio situations.

But hey, safe, sane, consensual right?

Kinkylocs​(switch female){Who cares} • Jul 22, 2017

Oooh SO=significant other?

Oh, and definitely make sure you talk about what's expected of each other extensively before hand so as to not make things awkward. Think about what you'd like to do to her and then make sure you find out how are feels about the basic elements of those desires (inflicting pain, fear, bondage, names, etc)