Narcissistic Doms

Narcissistic Doms

KnottyBunny • Sep 4, 2020

Are they bad?

Read this in a FB group..

"The term narcissist is thrown around a lot. When you've met one, it will not be mistaken. That is, once you realize what the actual fuck you are swallowed into. And you must chew off at least an arm to escape. You will be damaged. You will be changed.
They are the void. In human form.
They are shitty Doms because all they do is devour, take and feed. Their egos are so fragile, they are so sensitive that there is no reasoning to be had. There is no regard for another.
Narcissistic traits are useful for self preservation. We all have them, to some degree. Some traits are useful as a Dominant. Not the ones I mentioned above.
One follows a narc because a fear and because there is no choice. One follows a Dominant willingly because they trust they will be kept safe whatever the task.
A Dominants has the power to say do, for totally self fulfilling reasons, but this is consented to and not coerced. And not done by destroying another.
The difference is intent, regard, ability to reason and self reflect.
Many find this LS by falling prey to unhealthy folks. They use the LS to disguise their swallowing of souls and call it BDSM or PE.
You dont know until you know. That is why education is so important. This wonderful LS shouldnt be hidden and not talked about, that only serves the predators.
It is a thing of beauty. Of growth and self realization(see, self serving). It is not a dirty little secret."

Is this you?
Do you stay out of fear?
Have you been coerced?
Maybe given something no one else can give you so you stick around to get what you need but get more damaged in the process?
Do you feel like a dirty little secret?
When are narcissistic behaviors in Doms ok?
When are narcissistic behaviors in Doms NOT ok?

Awesome

truckstopjunkie • Sep 4, 2020

I see you have done your homework, fellow RAM. You know you are going to hurt some pride and expose unhealthy relationships. That is awesome. Keep up the good work, we all deserve to be happy. I hope the very best for you.

AmericanPsycho{None} • Sep 12, 2020

When the sadist has been up front and honest of his intent.

AmericanPsycho{None} • Sep 12, 2020

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KnottyBunny • Sep 12, 2020

This is not about you.