What are the deciding factors?

BelleAnn​(sub female) • May 17, 2021

This is hitting to close to my heart. I'm in a relationship, married actually, to a beautiful very kind hearted soul. However I find myself putting up barriers and pulling away. I know its because I'm not having my needs met. I'm struggling with this because I love my spouse but have never actually been completely honest with how much I'm hurting. I have talked about my needs, wants, and desires but when we tried it made my spouse upset to the point of crying. Also I've been taking on the dominant role in and out of the bedroom and it leaves me feeling uncomfortable and uncertain. I know in my heart of hearts that this isn't going to work out but how do I leave?

Miki • May 17, 2021

It could be any number of things. From obvious red flags to a more subtle "bad vibe"-- Or "no spark".