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MstressWhipplash​(dom female)
10 months ago • Jun 24, 2023
Remember that Venus in Furs is fiction. In reality there isn't "turning" a person. So many guys fail and get upset when they think, rudely, that they can turn a vanilla jnto the free ProDomme of their dreams dishing out kink dispensing when ever he wants it.

She is vanilla by choice and he falls in love with her and it ends in divorce. Too many times have I seen that in a post on Fetlife.

In reality IF she already has those desires and expresses that FIRST verbally, then they explore that in kinky playtime with MUTUALconsent prior to play starting. Otherwise the guy is being selfish and putting his kink on her, an unsuspecting vanilla hoping he can "turn" her.

If you seek a Dominant Woman then seek a compatible HUMAN in the fetish forum at kink events, munches and markets.

Of course I don't know the op of this question. So my comments relate to the guys I have discussed this topic with over the years face to face, and in various discussion forums online.