Is it needed to tell me that you're a nice guy?

TwinkleEyes • Dec 20, 2023

I find nice guys are the scariest. Their real agenda is hidden…. One of the “nice guy” here kept offering me a spanking for a BG and another did non consensual stuff to me.

If prefer the ones who are straight up about wanting sex or a dynamic. At least they are up front and honest. I know most submissive don’t.

The trauma stories that are told to me are about the “nice guy”.

Cognizant​(sadist male) • Dec 20, 2023

All humans are complicated in that we often put on masks, different masks depending on who we are engaging or how we want to appear to a specific other(s). Actions speak much louder than words. . .but often people will be on their best behavior when meeting people for the first time or even over long periods of time. As far as online goes. . .it's hard to believe someone is a nice guy if their messaging seems pushy , rude or violates your trust or consent.