Softnote(masochist female)
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1 week ago •
Nov 30, 2024
1 week ago •
Nov 30, 2024
Ghosting is toast let it rest in peace.
Some need spanking and discipline. Not all are like this but can't tame them all but they must be willing to come with some growth. Some need a pick me up or wake up call. Some don't know what habits they are doing til they are shown yes some have to work on things.
When it gets to reality it may even break the person's reality they wanna keep just the same but don't want to move further they still have things to work on that can get them to shy away. Some still figure out the world; it takes time. Not saying this anyone but women don't like when a guy pretends to be something then when the exchange photos come it does look white collar whatever who they said or clean up good are come with the life just has to be the same or its a no still a no. Looks are not all but one thing grooming skills and secured life, not living in a shack, not being in prison well not all are but people have to read between the lines to be good to read people. But it's online ya you have to be careful women show a few pictures men need to do the same not just a blank profile I am not saying just one I am talking about they want a women they need to do bit of really studying themself and mastering self don't be lazy get up and clean up the lazy look life does seem they really putting in the work ya that would make someone walk away. A woman wants to feel safe and know the person is real on the other side. Forcing and demanding does not work; it can happen either way to anyone. They can say so many things but can they show the blueprints that add up cause it's crap getting back. But if guy looks like came out the swamp ya it make anyone run ya know one's wakes up perfect but people gotta do better clean up life be honest. One who has been on the ped list now will enter. The stupid question never worked. Did you think of this when you were younger ?creepy as shit to make anyone run to the hills this happened years ago but truly anyone could just be playing with ya just to make you jump or just laugh. Men really gotta on manners cleaning up good some gotta stop living with the parents and get their own place the basement won't work. Know one is going to be a caretaker 24/7 and get a nurse, don't use D/s as an excuse. Guy calling you sis have we met before what are people on these day's sorry know going to call you bro grow the up anything that against the law bye. But if a guy has a blank profile but expects them to write back but it was only short words they gave they will not get a response. Act lazy you will get lazy back. But gals gotta work on manners to not look like a bum in the gutter and clean up well if you want the same in return don't get mad at men. Well, it goes both ways. Perfect does not exist sorry but if you're looking for a model you're on the wrong site this not 2007 Victoria secret cause people come in all shapes and sizes. As a long person is willing to build trust a leading hand can mold without trying to change a person but willing to help them grow and show them the way. It takes the right person to really wake it up not anyone's job to fix anyone but only you. That is right. Be a jerk you get jerk back so check yourself make peace if you want respect but come with respect and peace. The hi , . your hot , hey babe , Whats up grow some your a adult you know how to spell and write that why people pass you by. Your just looking to get your dick and pussy wet your also on wrong place D/s is not all sex its more than that you gotta be able to read a person mind not mess it up. You did come with manners, get some and chase real dopamine not the fake kind. When they stop being pick dicks, people will come out of the shadow's. Where are all the good men and women? Hiding in the shadow's they will come out when the rest can be good also anyone can do it just takes one person to start. You're in the lifestyle, please do your research, don't just take everything you just read one place, go out read more, get a book, do your homework and test things and build. Take things in moderation also not all connections are the same, more fish in the sea rejection can happen but does mean the end of the rudeness. First connection does mean going to work out, take it slow, never demand or make someone bark. Just a Dom and Sub you need to be a bit vanilla before the BDSM gets to know someone like you meet in real life at a coffee shop, grow a trust and bond because submission is earned not just given but also goes for earning a Dom heart as well. I know one has to do something crazy. know one needs to take it off and call anyone master or slave right away. It's going to take a few messages back and forth to see if the connection and energy is right then exchange fully clothed photo's then van cam and voice keep in touch as friends before anything. Meeting takes a few months and a year or more. The guy should meet the girl in a public place, never demand things be respectful, try to work things out, don't force anything, you gotta be the same as you did online how you met them cause you need to see if you're on the same page and never rush it only leads to getting hurt. Just get tested, don't jump into sex you really need to go out and do things like courting someone first you may need to sleep in another room and have some manners to build your way to holding hands more. You want grown Women/Men don't come off as horny you will get denied of the bat control yourself or be alone. Dear slave men, no Man or women will switch to take on demands to humiliate you in first demands just because your horny does mean the whole world is you go in a BDSM club all horny and perv you will get kicked out of place so think before you leap. Don't touch other people, ask first or people partners without permission. Don't expect everyone to be poly, not everyone is, many people only want one person alone not everyone kink is the same can not be changed. But sure their is a longer longer list know one got time to write it.
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