Confucius(sub gender queer) |
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2 weeks ago •
Mar 12, 2025
Confused
2 weeks ago •
Mar 12, 2025
Confucius(sub gender queer) • Mar 12, 2025
I'm confused about my own behaviour. This may be the wrong place to ask... As I feel it is more trauma based.
Why to I want to give oral to punish the other person who has hurt me emotionally? How could receiving oral ever be considered punishment? They seem happy to receive, but they also seem to understand it's messed up and they don't deserve the pleasure. I fear it may be fear of abandonment on my part, but why use it that way? Maybe I do it because they will feel guilty for what they did, but I am just so very confused. Can anyone help explain? I think although not discussed, I am more sub than them, which I'm anxious about, but also maybe my power comes from being somewhat sub. Help‽ |
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