NrsGoodBody(switch female){FREEspirit}
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5 years ago •
Jun 2, 2018
5 years ago •
Jun 2, 2018
There is a conotation associated with being a switch here and in general, BDSM. the theory is greed. i could give a fuck. To me, switch is what i feel in the moment. My switch tendencies are not only BDSM, but to my life- so to me, i do not look to THAT as the only explaination for it. Switch to me is NOT being bisexual. It is b/w your "sides". If you choose to be bisexual, thats on you and is what it is but thats its own "label". Being a switch , to me, isn't just a decision b/c you feel like Topping from the bottom. if thats what ya wanna do then do that. It's not being a momentary glance at shoving shit in someones ass or pulling a whip out to spank them.
Being a Domme is a huge responsibility in a switch relationship as is being a submissive or taking on a submissive. There are certain things you must take in to consideration when "switching". I guess to me, I don't think it's such a fly by night deal and I take it seriously, like people who take Dom/sub seriously. Considering switch drop is also highly important and most do not take it into consideration.
I have multiple sides and tendencies that I fulfill with being a switch. All of them, I take VERY seriously b/c it is my duty to not harm either a (my) sub nor my switch. I have Sadist interests and masochist interests and that requires a certain level of responsibility in them also.
I find it inconsiderate to have judgement for or towards switches, but it occurs and I speak on it when I see it (not saying thats this forum, i'm speaking in general). There are many switches on this site. I might be the most vocal one, i don't know. Read this how you wish, it is an opinion to a forum post.
You speak about Doms being interested in switch fantasies. I call b.s. mostly because SOME are switches and some just want to feel it out. But honestly, if you can't deal with what I want to do with you then, nope, not a switch.
What does switch mean to you DammitJanet? At the end of the day, that's all that matters.
#LivingAsASwitch #NotJustForPlay
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