Who's up for a chat?

Who's up for a chat?

Texasdays​(dom male) • Dec 2, 2025

Hi,

Regisered a while ago, but haven't done a proper introduction yet. Mostly just haven't had the time, but I do check out the topics every so often. It's refreshing to see that there are so many points of view and subjects here. Seems like my kind of place really. As the name suggests I'm in Texas. I have been a dominant personality since I can remember, but I have learned a great deal about myself and who I am over the years and have refined my definition of who I am as a Dom. Really, I'm just here to talk with and swap ideas with like minded people who enjoy our unconventional way of life. It can be quite difficult to find people in real life that are comfortable with it, so it's nice to see that this community exists. So, if you feeling chatting, have a question, or an amusing idea for a scene, I'd like to hear from you. Stay safe, sane, consensual, and keep it spicy.

dressmeup​(sub male)​{? } • Dec 5, 2025

Hi I would love to get strapped in a sling and have somebody underneath me in the lounge chair and it just take control of my legs and the sling would be on a pulley they could lower me down onto their cock just take my legs and work me all around it lift me up and down on it or whatever what do you think about that

Texasdays​(dom male) • Dec 5, 2025

Hmmmmmm, that's pretty specific. I can't say I have too much of an opinion on it personally. I'm straight, and very limited with my guy on guy knowledge, but I'm sure there is opportunity. Not saying that I wouldn't put a male sub to work, but it would probably be more in service than a sexual dynamic. I can help with some logistics though maybe. There are chairs made for something very similar to this that I have seen. Spring loaded, and the top lays down under the chair so that the bottom can ride him.

I took the opportunity to look at your profile while I was considering your question, and it seems you have a lot that you want to ask and learn about. Have you considered looking up munches that are local to you? Sometimes the folks there can help with advice, resources, or even play parties that are similar to what you are looking for. Being new in the lifestyle can be overwhelming and difficult to navigate, and I've found that finding someone local that you can talk with regularly helps a lot. A guide, or trainer if you will.

dressmeup​(sub male)​{? } • Dec 6, 2025

Im looking but shy. Its easier to chat here. Ive been asked to go to nude places
I've never been to a tittie bar r strip joint

Texasdays​(dom male) • Dec 6, 2025

I get that. It's easier to talk online and see what people say, but trust me, you don't have to dive in all at once at events either. Especially if you don't already know the people there. Organized events that are open to newcomers and the public are usually well equipped for guidance and you'll probably meet a whole bunch of people who were exactly in your same place not that long ago. The beauty of this community is that we have all been there at some point, and we understand. That can also be a problem online. If you're really seeking to find your dynamic with people, real people in your life that you can rely on are necessary. There are several articles as well that may be able to help guide you here on this site. You may even be able to find a reliable Dom on this site that can help you with learning the ropes as it were, or subs that have been in your same place recently. Read the bios, think through what you want to ask, and then ask respectfully. I'm sure online play occurs here too, but it's probably through the messages where it's kept somewhat private. The dynamic between a Dom and a sub is usually a very personal thing, so that privacy is necessary. I'm very glad you are reaching out, and I hope that I've helped a little bit. I'm sure you still have questions, but make sure you are asking the questions you really want to ask, and if I can help I will.