Marshalls Best

dom male

- Master / Dom to female subs
- Rigger musician, father, divorced Dad. Artist, amateur Coder, Minecraft Lover. Story teller, admirer of the natural world. Wood worker. Electrician mechanical technician. Business owner. 
- Not a Switch
- Open to chatting with other Dom's for advice and perspective.
- Technically minded with the talent to bring technologies already available in to view to help see dreams come true.
- I require communication and much prefer the hard thing be said and discussed than a silent response. For this is what allows mistaken assumptions to be made. This make everything else far less enjoyable.
- Self improvement is an ongoing lesson on what I want and owning those decisions. 

I was introduced to BDSM in my teens while exploring the various nudity magazines and was given the Story of O to read when i was 16 and that changed a number of things. 

Fast foreword to my twenties and I realized I was basically #ME-TOO aware long before the rest of the world, thanks to me being raised by an active feminist and incredible mother.

At the same time once the consent is established and limits understood I'm naturally inclined to want to dominate and control my lovers as I like. This created an almost split personality as I'm most definitely not a "take what he wants" kind of guy until I know for sure I'm allowed.

Also, I've been really enjoying shibari and the beauty of rope bondage along with various impact play, I can see humiliation/degrading sneaking in as well but I think I have to find a way to square that behavior with the lessons learned growing up which takes time to explore so here I am.

I'm here to learn first and foremost, and hopefully make some new friends along the way.

- Not in to being submissive myself

- Not in to anything involving, feces or blood