Marshalls Best

dom male

- Master / Dom to female subs
- Rigger 
- Not a Switch
- Open to meeting other Doms for advice and wisdom.
- I require communication and much prefer the hard thing be said and discussed than silent responses that allow mistaken assumptions to make everything else far less enjoyable.

I was introduced to BDSM in my teens while exploring the various nudity magazines and was given the Story of O to read when i was 16 and that changed a number of things. 

Anyway fast foreword to my twenties and I realized I was basically #ME-TOO aware long before the rest of the world, thanks to me being raised by an active feminist and incredible mother.

At the same time once the consent is established and limits understood I'm naturally inclined to want to dominate and control my lovers as I like. This created an almost split personality as I'm most definitely not a "take what he wants" kinda guy until I know for sure I'm allowed.

Also, I've been really enjoying Shibari and the beauty of rope bondage along with various impact play, I can see humiliation/degrading sneaking in as well but I think I have to find a way to square that behaviour with the lessons learned growing up which takes time to explore so here I am.

I'm here to learn first and foremost, and hopefully make some new friends along the way.

- Not in to being submissive myself

- Not in to anything involving, feces or blood