NYlisa

sub female

55

Hello and welcome to my profile. After years of knowing my kinky self, I am finally ready and able to venture out and make friends with other like-minded people.

I have a very full life filled with family, friends and work, as I am sure you do, too. But something is missing and it is that special person who understands the need to include kinky play while also living a happy and healthy life. I am not able to do this 24/7, but love the idea of it being part of our sex life.

I am separated and close to a resolution to be officially divorced, but in reality I have been separated for years. Now that it is becoming official, I am finally able to look for someone who understands that having kink sprinkled in with an honest, trusting and fun relationship is a must.

I am sure that we both have a life that is very fulfilling, but still seek this special relationship that completes a part of us that is hard for most people to understand. With the right person, I hope to explore and learn more about my deep needs. YOU MUST BE LOCAL (LONG ISLAND) I am too old for games, so please be real and I will be the same. No smokers, please. Drug and disease free a must; humor and good conversation are a big plus. And if you also like travel (including cruising), theater, movies and music, it is an even bigger plus! And you can find me at lisawantstoplay1 at....gee.....can I say this on here?

My Ideal Person A non-smoker who doesn't have pets (I am allergic). Someone who is SINGLE and looking for a one-on-one relationship, mature, understanding, social and has a good sense of humor.

BDSM and its many components have thrilled me from as long as I can remember. I love the idea of the mind being the first part of the BDSM dynamic. I really enjoy impact play and bondage, along with humiliation. In order for me to submit, however, you must be intelligent and mature. You must be willing to talk about submission and dominance and what it means to be in such a relationship. Even though I need much more than that in the relationship, the D/s dynamic needs to be part of it. With that foundation, I need someone that I can relate to outside the playroom while always knowing that the sex will involve BDSM. I hope to grow and learn more about my deep needs, as I know there is always room for growth. And I need the right dominant to guide me and understand the balance of life and kink. Let's enjoy it both together.

My biggest limit are those who are fakes. I want to give so much of myself and cannot bear to do that with those who are just playing me, so please don't waste my time. Must be local (Long Island, preferred.)   No smokers and you must be drug and disease, as I am.

Nov 9, 2024

Jul 27, 2020