NYlisa

sub female

54

Let's start off with the circumstances: I am a 51 year old married mother of two teenagers. My husband knows of my submissive needs and of my looking to explore this without him. I am at the point in my life where I want to fulfill my in-born desires to submit. I am looking for a TRUE and HONEST relationship based on integrity, trust and understanding. I, like most "real" people out there, have many facets of my life that have to be balanced while seeking the BDSM relationship that I know I need to have in order to feel happy and fulfilled. The circumstances that I mentioned earlier may change and will fluctuate. If you can see past them, I am confident that with the right dominant we can grow together to form a bond that will make us both happy and satisfied. I am old enough to know that there is no "perfect" match out there. But I am real and true and looking for someone that I can explore and learn with, both in the playroom and outside of it.

BDSM and its many components have thrilled me from as long as I can remember. I love the idea of power exchange and belonging to someone. I get turned on immensely by humiliation. I also really enjoy impact play and bondage. In order for me to submit, however, you must be intelligent and mature. You must be willing to talk about submission and dominance and what it means to be in such a relationship. Even though I need much more than that in the relationship, the D/S dynamic has to be the basis of it. With that foundation, I need someone that I can relate to outside the playroom while always knowing the basis of our relationship. I hope to grow and learn more about my deep needs, as I know there is always room for growth. And i need the right dominant to guide me. Let's enjoy life and kink together.

My biggest limit are those who are fakes. I want to give so much of myself and cannot bear to do that with those who are just playing me, so please don't waste my time. Must be local (Long Island, preferred.)   No smokers and you must be drug and disease, as I am.

Jul 30, 2020

Jul 27, 2020