Sir Jack Knows

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About me
About me
I'm a word and language person. I'd say I'm a word-play artist at heart. Often for the humor, but it does come in quite handy in many life situations. I'm an INTP, who does know how to feel (sequentially, that is - feel free to ask:). I'm a reader, a writer, possess an excellent sense of humor. People tell me I'm clever and wise. I'm well-versed in the arts of philosophy and psychology. I enjoy biking, hiking trails, kayaks, and a few other activities. I'm a news junkie. I love music, everything from Alberta Hunter and Leonard Cohen to Rammstein and Steve 'n Seagulls, and everything in between. I'm curious, experientially-driven, energetic, and fortunate to not be jaded as life's surprises arrive. I'm quite respectful and careful with people. I don't expect too much from others unless its earned or otherwise agreed to. I value intelligence and critical thinking very highly. I do procrastinate about certain things on a regular basis, yet mostly because they're in the busy oven of my mind and I like keeping them warm. I'd say I'm reflective and don't carry any tendencies towards anger or resentment. But as needed, my eyes speak volumes and my words can melt steel. (In a good way, of course:)  I'm 6'2, 175 lbs., and quite easy on the eyes, as they say. I'm currently in the MD/DC/VA area, but open to other places if the right situation develops.
BDSM and me
I've had a decent number of experiences in this realm, but it has been a while (meaning years). Over the past few months, I've been thinking about what's most important, what keeps my interest, and what I'd like to invest in from here. Take a guess where I landed. I'd say my D mentality is a blend, and importantly, the experience is enriched by being flexible enough in the initial stages until a solid rhythm can be established. Once that happens, real growth and intimacy can occur - so, yes, I'm looking for a LTR in that regard. I'm not opposed to periodic play time, but to me that's just a snack as opposed to a well-planned, luxurious meal. Yet, don't misread me in that regard: I know what I want, and will pursue and develop a new relationship until I achieve that place. And then we can extend it further....

And yes, I believe in the rich values of ownership, and with that, a clear sense of the responsibilities it entails.

What I'm seeking: I want to create a 24/7 relationship that combines the richness and intensity of the entire arc, both BDSM and everyday life. Other versions, for me, can be fun and interesting yet don't measure up in terms of depth or meaning. Chemistry is very important - physical, psychological, spiritual, and emotional. Being ready and open for that version of this lifestyle is no small thing, and I know I have the attitude, desire, and tools to be there. Are you in that same place? External life distractions are always there, whether they be family, social, work, or other pursuits or interests that are important to each of us. Those aspects require communication, understanding, and any number of agreements about to integrate 'all of it' into a cohesive and satisfying situation. I respect limits, yet also expect walking through that part with care and consideration. Lastly, I do prefer a submissive with enough experience to know what she wants, more in the macro-sense. There are always bumps in the road, and most of them can be smoothed out, so please be aware of your own triggers early on. That's a meaningful contribution that can save us both from the kind of surprises that become actual obstacles. "Know thyself" is an important mantra in that regard.
Limits
Limits are negotiable. Most lists are fairly standard, some include a couple of things I might miss experiencing. I won't opine further without a specific connection and meaningful discussions.
What's new
I've been doing some casual traveling recently, visiting family plus old and newer friends. This time has allowed me to further reflect on what I'm seeking in the realms of D/s and BDSM. All indications are I'm interested in a deeper approach which would likely be between what I'll call the more standard versions of relationship and TPE. Too complicated to explain more here, but more than happy to describe it if we connect and talk things through.
BDSM and me
Love I get so lost sometimes
Days pass and this emptiness fills my heart
When I want to run away I drive off in my car
But whichever way I go
I come back to the place you are
All my instincts, they return
The grand facade, so soon will burn
Without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the inside
In your eyes
The light, the heat (in your eyes)
I am complete (in your eyes)
I see the doorway (in your eyes)
To a thousand churches (in your eyes)
The resolution (in your eyes)
Of all the fruitless searches (in your eyes)
Oh, I see the light and the heat (in your eyes)
Oh, I wanna be that complete
I wanna touch the light, the heat I see in your eyes
Love, I don't like to see so much pain
So much wasted and this moment keeps slipping away
I get so tired working so hard for our survival
I look to the time with you to keep me awake and alive
And all my instincts they return
And the grand facade, so soon will burn
Without a noise, without my pride
I reach out from the inside
In your eyes (your eyes, your eyes)
In your eyes
In your eyes
The light, the heat (in your eyes)
I am complete (in your eyes)
I see the doorway
To a thousand churches (in your eyes)
The resolution (in your eyes)
Of all the fruitless searches
Oh, I see the light and the heat (in your eyes)
Oh, I wanna be that complete (in your eyes)
I wanna touch the light, the heat I see in your eyes
In your eyes
In your eyes
In your eyes
In your eyes (in your eyes)
(In your eyes)
In your eyes (in your eyes)
In your eyes (in your eyes)
Source: Musixmatch
Songwriters: Peter Gabriel
In Your Eyes lyrics © Times Music, Real World Music Ltd
Limits
Always a few, needs actual discussion.
What's new
The ultimate search continues.
Update date
Sunday, February 14, 2021
Member since
Saturday, August 1, 2020
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