sub female

Columbus, Ohio, United States
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
First off I am married. And I am 40yrs old. If that bothers you move along. I am submissive I was born this way . It is naturally me and also a big part of my culture. I am always looking for ways to better myself. I greatly enjoy pleasing those I care about, it brings me great satisfaction. That does not make me weak. On the contrary it is very empowering. I am aware of what and who I am..
BDSM and me
I am not aware of what or who I need. If that makes sense. Lol. It doesn’t have to make sense to everybody just to those who understand. I am feeling lost lately and being on this site brings me a bit of peace in my somewhat chaotic life. I am a private person and do not like to go on and on in my profile. If you are curious,ask and I will answer. Seduce the mind and the body follows....I very much like to be dominated not only in the bedroom but in my everyday life, I thrive more when I am controlled I aim to please. I like a firm mind as well as a firm hand. Spanking is my favorite it just seems more private and personal be it with a hand or a paddle( preferably hand;) I have not had much experience in real life but willing to try anything once.
I am unaware but not naive. To be discussed.
What's new
Everything is new to me...Show me...I am not looking for a Dominant just for some like minded interesting conversation. As I said I am not looking but if something happens then it happens. I doubt that it will I tend to be a little...elusive. Not intentionally my mind just goes round and round, hence me being here I suppose. Anyway that is only a tiny bit of myself. Always open to making new friends.
Update date
Wednesday, December 12, 2018
Member since
Saturday, September 16, 2017
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