sub female

Michigan, United States
Premium, Online
Audio recording
Relationship status
About me

If you show no signs of having actually read my profile, don't bother contacting me.
If your profile is blank, don't bother contacting me.
If you cannot hold up your end of a conversation, don't bother contacting me.

I've been in the lifestyle from a young age.

I'm in the lifestyle - that does not mean I want you to simply talk to me about sex. If that is going to be one of your first questions, don't bother contacting me.

I can be a very nice person or a very mean person, the person that you deal with is all up to your actions.

I am no longer that positive woman who believed in the goodness in everyone. I learned the hard way, repeatedly, that everyone will eventually hurt you if you give them that chance. Unfortunately for me, it took me one too many times of giving that chance away for me to completely understand that.

I have more than one Dom and sub that watch out for me on cage. And more than one that have messaged someone to get them to leave me alone. I am very appreciative of the friends and family that I have come to have on Cage and would do anything for them.

I define as a brat, but that doesn't mean I misbehave just for the joyful fun of it. If you don't understand what a brat truly is, please look that up before trying to "whip the brat out of me". That won't happen. Being a brat, I like to tease and have fun. But if you are a good Dom, and I respect you, I know when to be serious.

I also define as a little. This does NOT mean I am into diapers or bottles or...whatever else your imagination is running wild with right now. This does mean I like watching Disney and cartoons. I also like to color occasionally. It does mean that, ideally, you are at least a bit of a Daddy Dom. If you are not, that does not mean I would not consider you.

I am a kitten. Yes, this means I love getting petted. Like any true cat, I have an aversion to cages and enclosed spaces. I do not wish to drink from a bowl on the floor nor eat from one. I do like bells and cat toys. I do love my hair being played with and brushed.

I am a submissive. I am not a slave. I am not a doormat (and no, I do not believe slaves are either). I have many sides to me. I am not yours. I do not answer to you. At this time, I answer only to myself, my Dom, and, sometimes, the Doms I have chosen to give my respect to. When I choose to obey their suggestions. Because they are not orders - never mistake them as such.

Please don't message me in some mistaken attempt to Dom me. Not only will it not work, but I will treat you just as you treated me - with no respect. Then when I am done toying with you, I will block you because that is what you mean to me.


A short bit actually about me:

I am 24 years old with a wonderful and beautiful daughter. I have had multiple years within the lifestyle and a few Doms during that time. I have had a bad past but try to move forward every day even though I often fail at doing so.

I don't tend to hide who I am or fight my playfulness with anyone. Some people disagree with my behavior in that regard and that's okay - I have no requirement to please their thinking on how I should be.

I am in school for Early Childhood Education and I am deeply invested in the improvement of education on the whole - there is always room for improvement. I have a dual major in Psychology. 

I do not truly have a shy bone in my body and I am way too playful to grow one! I am a generally friendly person and love to make friends. If you intend to try to kill that within me, don't bother trying to message me or start a dynamic with me - I am not interested in killing off that part of myself.

Some simple information to get out of the way...


Animal: Cat or Owl
Food: Cheesecake, Stuffed Chicken, or my homemade BBQ Meatballs
Color: Slytherin Green
Book Series: Harry Potter
TV Series: Gilmore Girls
Season: Winter, Fall as a close second
Holiday: Christmas, then Halloween
Saying: "The question is not Who is going to let me? It's who is going to stop me?"
Movie Series: Harry Potter


"I wait at your knees, not because I am expected to, but because it is where I feel safest." ~Unknown

"When a woman submits to a man, it's the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It's his sworn duty to protect, honor, and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman's is no man." ~Maya Banks

"It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel." ~ Cherise Sinclair

"I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman." ~ Anais Nin

"A passionate woman is worth the chaos." ~Unknown

"I can be tough. I can be strong. But with you, it's not like that at all. There's a girl who gives a shit behind this wall. " ~Avril Lavigne

Tell me a story,” said Witch's child.
“About a Beast so fierce and wild.
About a Ghost that shrieks and groans,
Skeleton that rattles bones,
About a Monster, crawly creepy.
Something nice to make me sleepy

BDSM and me
Don't mistake my time on this site for that being an indicator of my time in the lifestyle. You would be incorrect, but it will absolutely amuse me. And I do enjoy being amused.

I have a rocky history with BDSM. Past abusers, past users, past manipulators. I am more careful to weed those out and have people who love and care for me now that are also good at seeing the red flags that I am blind to. Do not assume you will manage to hide them from both them as well as me.

Please take the colors I used for much of my profile seriously. They are MEANT to resemble ice and winter. Because my heart is becoming more icy over time and I am tired of dealing with those who would assume that I am less intelligent than I am.

I believe that honesty, openness, and communication are some of the most important things in the lifestyle and are often the things that we take for granted or think we have and do not actually seem to have. That said, when it comes to my past, I feel that is information earned rather than information given freely as it has the power to hurt me greatly.

Hard Limits

Game Players
Enclosed Spaces
Water Sports
Illegal Things
Permanent Damage
Things that will cause me harm
Underwater bondage

Softer Limits

Degrading names
The word bitch 
What's new
I took the BDSM test since it has been a while so I guess, why the hell not. Here are my results: 

100% Exhibitionist
100% Pet
100% Brat
100% Slave
100% Masochist
100% Voyeur
100% Rope bunny
100% Experimentalist
96% Primal (Prey)
96% Submissive
79% Boy/Girl
68% Degradee
65% Ageplayer
62% Switch
55% Non-monogamist
49% Vanilla
42% Daddy/Mommy
29% Brat tamer
28% Sadist
18% Dominant
12% Primal (Hunter)
1% Rigger
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress
Update date
Wednesday, January 13, 2021
Member since
Wednesday, August 12, 2020
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