Identity, Orientation, Dynamics, Roles, PersonalityGender Identity:
Queer/Gender Non-Conforming (GNC)Gender Expression/Presentation:
Feminine/FemmeSex Assigned At Birth:
She/Her/HerselfSexual Orientation/Physical Attraction:
Mono-ish Demi- Pan-Romantic Orientation/Emotional Attraction:
Poly- Demi- Pan-Kinsey Scale:
D3Relationship Dynamics (Roles):
Authority Based (Master), Power Exchange (Dominant), Kinky Play (Top/Sadist)Myers-Briggs Type Indicator: ISTJ
(Introversion Sensing Thinking Judging)Love Language:
Acts of Service (primary), Receiving Gifts and Quality Time (secondary)Relationships
Many people are puzzled by the dynamic between my girl (Kiltgrrl) and I, mainly because we don't fit cleanly within typical labels. The closest approximation to our dynamic would be that of a daimyo
, or lord/retainer, and therefore consider our dynamic to be M/s or Authority-Based. She is very much my loyal warrior that follows a path of honor. She keeps watch, observes, serves, and attends as I am the lord she has chosen to offer her allegiance to. We are both Dominant, although she is one that is on a leash (figuratively speaking)...she has chosen to serve me
. Within the Household, she is alpha among those who serve and a command from her should be heard as if I spoke it myself. She provides assistance and performs certain functions that I may not be able to or she is better at, which are required and desired for me to lead a whole, happy, and healthy life. She feeds me (in ways more than simply edibles), makes me laugh (ask about Trae-Puppet), is much like a handler or bodyguard at events, and is my closest companion. Kiltgrrl is my Service Bear Warrior Consort. She has sworn her mind, her heart, and her strength to me.
She is my William Riker, my Joscelin Verreuil, my bushi/samurai, and my Thomas Branson rolled up in one.
I am also fortunate to have several wonderful service-oriented individuals that serve me from time to time. I love the wonderful energy they bring into my life and the peace I feel from their service.