RekindlingAria{Protected }
sub female

West Virginia, United States
Age
36
Relationship status
In a monogamous relationship
About me
EDIT: All new dominant contacts who wish to express interest in me must go through SirKuroUsagi.  SirKuroUsagi is not my dom, but you do have to contact him for permission to talk to me. If this concerns one of my charges or you are another submissive, you may speak directly to me.

Currently looking for MY dom to harness my fire and make it useful.   Know what you want from each of us before talking to me.  I want something offline and long term.  Do you or are you just here for fun ?  Listen to the song "Help Me Find It" by Sidewalk Prophets....sums things up pretty well.  

36 year old sophisicated hetroflexible sensual submissive, married to a vanilla male....it's complicated, dead, and there are no children.   Verbose, sapiosexual bibliophilic ENFP idealist champion with a dry sense of humor.....an unashamed kinky Martha Stewart with the body of Kate Winslet who your mother likes better than you because my caretaking skills surpass her expectations.   That and she has never caught me shaking my ass to Meghan Trainor while ironing clad only in a pair of stiletto heels, although you frequently have enjoyed the show.
BDSM and me
I am an experienced submissive, but have been out of the lifestyle for 15 years.   Looking to get back in, actually.  More of a smart ass masochist or bratty submissive than a slave, so not interested in abusers or men who want a spiritless automaton they can break.  I want the type of dominant who will mentally engage me over a cup of coffee and move me to have the desire to completely give over myself.  Know that I will not be shy to express my needs or wants.  

Seriously, if my dominant lacks patience, I will drive him crazy.  I am the loophole queen and love being playful.  Expect to never know what will come out of my mouth next, but know that it will probably make you laugh because I am trying to get you to lighten up or out of a funk.  Dominants who do not want to be kept on their toes need not apply.  Be prepared to amusedly admit, "That's not what I said......okay, it is, but I didn't mean it that way...."

Honestly, I do best with intelligent, sensual domInants who are driven to succeed, have loosely scheduled but routine lives, and are okay with my testing boundaries to make sure that they exist.  Am willing to follow my dominant to the ends of the earth, but I absolutely need a place to call home.  Bonus points if you have an accent, often wear suits, or look like Colin Firth.  Combine the three and you can skip the conversation at our first meeting....you'll already have seduced me with your words ahead of time.
Limits
Hard limits: rape play, children, humiliation, degradation, animals, animalistic pet play, bloodletting, scat, breath control, caging, and carbs.  Pretty open about/to everything else, as long as I trust my dominant.  Can't be illegal or fattening.   Am willing to try anything once....and do it again and again if I like it.
What's new
Playing Mama Hen to struggling subs.  Yes, I'm the one....
Update date
Tuesday, November 14, 2017
Member since
Monday, September 25, 2017
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