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dom male

55

Single

Self made, ex military man who's made his own way in life. Self employed, running my own small business which involves travel within the US and occasionally Europe. Outside of work I enjoy swimming, exploring woods, coastal and mountain trails, and motorcycling along back roads.

Divorced from my submissive ex wife for the last 3 years and been living the quiet life due to covid for almost 2, so hoping to connect with a likeminded submissive who presents opportunity for something deeper than just play partnering as I'm relationship minded seeking longhaul. 

Though I've been a Dominant Master for over 25 years, it's been inside the last 10 that maturity and experience brought about a change. Early on I was like a lot of young men, experimental, entheusiastic and more sadistic. Parenthood and life experience changed all that, it brought me to a point where I became averse to inflicting harm for harms sake, and made me more nurturing and benevolant as a Dominant, I enjoy being a more sensual Dom that works in sensation play and builds towards more bearable, pleasurable pain. I like the flogger, paddle, bare handed spanking, wartenberg pinwheel, hot oil massage,   lomi lomi massage tantric ans sacred sexuality.  I enjoy ropework and restraints,blindfolds and chains. I love the crack of a belt on a sweetly presented ass. One fetish interest I like to indulge is my dressing/costuming her for date nights and private bedroom play. I live to make my girl my muse and I like to draw inspiration from first of all her, followed by dressing/costuming her in something visually pleasing to me. I see myself as an ethical voyeur...as in she consents to dress for me in a manner that I love and I get my kicks from of course peeling it all off in play.

I have preferences as opposed to limits, which I hope will comfortably bookend a potential partners limits, as I'm a sensual dominant rather than an out and out hardcore sadist...

Nov 14, 2021

Sep 25, 2017