I'm an Author, YouTube Content Creator, Trainer and Coach. Not known internationally but a public figure locally and unfortunately where I live, society is neither open or respectful of my sexuality so no sharing of photos until enough Trust is Established.
D/s to me is:
It's growth oriented. It's natural, not porn-induced. It's based on and rooted in love, wellbeing and sensuality. It's consensual, no force or abuse. It's mental, emotional and even spiritual "i.e full of trust and pure intentions and soul to soul contributions" BEFORE it's physical.
It's building mutual trust, safety, freedom of unapologetical shameless expression of one's deepest desires. It's about safe play.
It's learning together and exploring.
It's adventurous and exciting.
It's nurturing, caring and mentoring and gently guiding the sub. And being submitted, trusted and obeyed by the Dom.
It's absolute genuineness, you can't fake either sub or Dom...
It's liberation, validation, and building mutual self confidence.
It's for the passionates, intense, courageous and confident.
She's to be shown and told, with integrity, that's she's the sexiest yet the most accepted, loved, safe and honored.
She's so powerful that she's submitting to Whom She KNOWS is beyond Powerful.
No subs or Doms are alike, especially for a Divine Person as Myself.
If there's THE SLIGHTEST feeling of unfairness or not feeling ABUNDANTLY EXCHANGING by being The Dom or the sub. It must be addressed and healed.
I'm NOT into pain *both ways, yet some spanking, rough sex, nipple clamps, etc are great for both training, disciplining AND spicing the experiences.*
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Some things I will have you do:
Lots of obeyed commands, ben wa balls, vibrated but denied orgasms, going out pantyless, anal plugs, videotaped masturbation at home / in other people's homes or even at the bathroom of a public place, extremely provocative clothes / lingerie, being called Sir/Master submissively, rewards and pleasurable punishments, lots of sensuality from you, Orgasm Control, Squirting Training, Multiple Orgasms Training, deepest sexual vulnerability of both real desires, events, thoughts AND also sharing dirtiest fantasies, sex outside "car, BJ in a restaurant, behind a building, etc", erotic story writing "simpy in writing or physically sharing fantasies of what is being done to you by me, in a scenario like format.", sexual challenges "numer of orgasms, number of denied orgasms, duration of masturbation without cumming, improved bjs n handjobs, deepthroats depth & duration, difficult sex positions, etc.", kegel exercises, self care n exercise done in a sexual way, talking on the phone while something sexual is happening to you "I'm eating your pussy, you playing with yourself, vibrator on, etc.",
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My beloved sub:
Understand Me. Appreciate me. Desire Me. Need Me. Crave Me. Deserve Me. Earn Me. Treasure Me. Respect Me. Honor Me. Trust Me. Fuck Me. Obey Me. Serve Me. Love Me.
Fakes and Ds wannabes.
Hookups or meaningless sexting.
What do I even want?
Passionate sex.
Sharing happiness.
Recognition.
Positive stimulations.
Laughter.
Skinship.
Encouragement.
Celebration.
Deep Presence.
Respect.
Love.
Mutual fulfillment.
Pleasurable experiences.