I consider myself a part of the 'kin'k' community as a whole, not just BDSM, as I am not a masochist of any sort nor a typical sub/slave etc. I consider myself a babygirl and I am looking for a Daddy Dom / baby girl type of relationship..........to what degree I am not yet certain as I am new to this type of lifestyle
I am seeking a very nurturing Daddy Dom / Cargiver - (there is LOTS AND LOTS of info in this section.......maybe grab a cuppa coffeeee...........lol)
Caring
Compassion
Understanding
Gentleness
Kindness
Tenderness
Affectionate
Self-sacrificing
The drive to guide, nurture, and protect.
Happiness from cherishing their partner's uniqueness and childish personality.
The ultimate desire to "take care of" their partner.
NEVER use the words slut or whore with, to or around me.....
The type of Dom who believes what is written below is all I am interested in............(in three parts)
"Lesson One: The Dominant Is Not (Really) In Charge
Not at all, not ever, and especially not with someone who trusts you enough to be "in charge" of a scene or fantasy. Because it must be emphasized repeatedly: as a Dominant you are not in charge. At best, you are a co author in this story. As such, you need to be aware of your partner just as much as yourself."
What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want.
Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub.
The Truth About Daddy Doms
January 12, 2015 by Jaded Harlot 3 Comments
Daddy Doms are all about taking care of their little girls.
Here are the Top 10 Things a Daddy Dom does for his little girl.
A Daddy Dom will…
Make sure his babygirl’s needs are met, both physically and emotionally.
Help mold her into her best self.
Correct her when she messes up. (think spankings, corner times, writing lines, etc.)
Guide her through life’s ups and downs.
Protect her to the best of his ability.
Love, cherish, and adore her.
Make her the focus of his attention.
Teach her things she needs to know.
Hold her accountable for her actions.
Satisfy her sexually.
Hard limits: ANY pain, degradation, humiliation, shaming, golden showers, children, animals, sadism, masochism, abuse physical or mental of any kind.
Hard limit - hand job on men.
Hard/Soft limit - oral/on men. (brutally abusive childhood and certain things are just not workable for me. unfortunately ) (I say hard/soft because I hold out some hope someday I will be able to do this without the emotional repercussions - or that I may be able to work in slight elements but that is all a REALLY BIG IF)