Don_Braum{No}sub male
Don_Braum{No}
I am a white man. I am 56 yo, 5’9”, about 220 lbs. I am, intelligent, educated in both science and liberal arts and my politics is far left for reasons that I believe are legitimate. I don’t do religion, but believe in God. I live in East Texas, an area that is largely Christian and “conservative”. This is where I was born and somehow my getting out never stuck.
I have retired for reasons I am happy to discuss upon request.
I have raised four kids, who are all grown now, out in the world, pursuing careers and life. They all turned out to be remarkably well adjusted, happy people. I have another child that is 13 and is the apple of my eye. Unfortunately, she lives with her mother, far from me, and I have to settle for getting her during the summer school breaks. She has turned out to be a little female me.
Loves profoundly. Love love. Compasion. Communication. Expression. I have been a man of inward reflection for most of my life, while also having a spontaneous since of ironic humor. It bothers me a lot when I do something to hurt another person and I don’t get on well with selfish assholes that feel no responsibility for how they affect others. This is just to shine some light on who you’re considering contacting. I’m a nice guy. I don’t think there’s anything average about me, but I am definitely a strong and caring man that is well capable of protecting myself and the people I love. Wise-asses and trolls, you have been fairly warned.
I’m here because it increases the chances of me meeting a woman that I can be compatible with. Someone who to be dominant over me and play with my mind. Being generally conscientious, thoughtful and aware of the footprints she’s leaving in this world is a plus. I want to share experience and feel the sensations of being dominated. For most of my life I played the role of being authority and was the boss. Now, I want to feel the passion of the power shift. I need to feel a sense of powerlessness as I am made to submit and obey a goddess. If playing a role in this appeals to you I hope you’ll initiate contact. Experience in this sort of play is not necessary. We all must start somewhere and I'm starting myself. I think this will come naturally for me. It should after a lifetime of fantasizing and being naturally wired to please. God help me, I love it so.
I have been told that my chances of meeting a woman that wants to play in this way are practically non existent. My age, they say, is working against me and so is lack of experience and accumulated wealth. They say the experienced people will have nothing to do with me. Maybe that is true, I just don’t know. I do know that interacting with people at this site has been a mixed bag. I’ve encountered people who boast about their decades of experience. One such guy gave me glowing, uplifting advice and then got mad because I didn’t just immediately turn all rainbows and unicorns. He blocked me after making a showy statement about how he hates “negative people”. In the course of shuffling and organizing and making sense of all this conflict and conflicting information I almost closed this account and gave up on this dream. I mean not just this account, but stop allowing it to consume my time at all. As fate would have it, I was having one last conversation about leaving and somehow, this impressively bright young woman tipped the reality scale enough to change my views. And I have to say, I’ve met considerably more cool people than uncool at The Cage.
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Why did I wait till I am 56 to start chasing this? If you haven’t noticed, we live a culture of shame. I was afraid. I totally respect all the people that have been brave and gotten over this fear of shame and I wish I would have joined them a long time ago. With the right person or people I am always happy to discuss these kinds of issues. I am willing to discus anything, for that matter. I enjoy being open and honest.
I want to serve. I want to be punished when I do not please. I want to be manipulated. I want to please a dom by whatever means she wishes. It's the most erotic thought of my life.
While I wait for her, nothing is off the table. I might even give myself the gift of a session with a professional DOMME. We'll see. Thank you for reading my profile.
Yes please.
I just want healthy play. Take control with mild pain, like hair pulling or whatever you prefer, just don't pull my hair out and don't twist one of my titties completely off. Whip me, but don't chain me against a wall and put permanent lash marks on me. As time goes by, if this happens for me at all, I'm sure my views on limits will evolve.
The following quote speaks to me, so I'm including it:
I’m sorry, but enough is enough—your tone policing, guilt tripping, glare giving, bible thumping, fear mongering tractor beams aren’t going to suck me back into your Evangelical Death Star anymore. I’ve tasted and seen the fruits of your faith convictions, my days of grin-and-bear-it are over. Today is the day of my emancipation, I’m finally drawing the line by erasing all of yours. Bravery has overcome and broken my heart wide open—my truth will not be silenced and my life imprisoned any longer.