sub female

Chicago, Illinois, United States
Relationship status
About me
Hi. My name is Olivia and I was made to love you. Beautifully servile, I have been described as charming. However, I will let you decide what I am.

I need to feel safe. Therefore, I will never send nudes or do sex things on cam. We can chat here and move on to phone from there. I know this isn’t a pen pal site so meeting IRL is an eventual must.
BDSM and me
I’m new. New to love, new to sex, new to it all. At first I thought myself to be asexual, but it turns out that at 38 I’m just a really late bloomer. I absolutely love romance. I’ve always had the need to serve, and I adore gender roles.

I have very little knowledge of the intricacies and protocols of a D/s lifestyle. I know the rules vary from Dominant to Dominant. I’m willing to learn if you’re willing to teach.
I have a low pain threshold and my limits are the obvious. No kids, animals, or body fluids. No poly relationships or harems. Monogamy only. No need for extreme pain or cruelty. I can do as you bid without the threat of violence. I want to be the love of your life, not your punching bag.
What's new
Supplemental information about me: I live in Chicago. This means distance is a factor. NW Indiana is ok within reason. I am 38, so my preferred age range for an Owner is between 35 and 55. I have no children and have never been married or owned.
One of my life goals is to experience physical and emotional love.
If you are a kind yet masculine man who is well spoken we will get along.
Don’t be afraid to contact me if you’re not “conventionally attractive”. I’m not either. Your disposition matters more to me than physical appearance ever can.

Vanilla information about me: I was trained in classical French cuisine and was a chef for almost 15 years. I enjoy dining out, going to movies, and general normal couples stuff. A good relationship is more than just sex and kink, so if you enjoy being vanilla that’s awesome. I would love to have a dinner and wine partner. If you like, I can cook you a gourmet meal. Whatever you want, we can do.

Addendum: If we’ve been talking for a while and you decide I’m not what you want, use your big boy words and tell me. Ghosting is cowardly and rude, two very Beta behaviors.
Update date
Friday, October 23, 2020
Member since
Thursday, October 8, 2020
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