In a polyamorous relationship
I'm in the Chicago suburbs, and am somewhat of a "Renaissance man" (please excuse the pretentiousness of that, it's just the easiest description). I am a professional in a technical field, but have also worked in education and the arts. I enjoy pretty much anything creative.
I am an experienced heterosexual dominant looking for a sub female for play. I am primarily looking for myself, however my significant other (who is more of a masochist than a submissive), may be up for playing as well if the kinks line up and the chemistry is there (that is certainly not a requirement, however). I really enjoy the psychological aspects of kink. A brief list of what I like includes:
Humiliation
Bondage
Electro play
Medical play
I am not looking for a vanilla relationship, although I do agree that some rapport is often necessary/desired. I am not interested in men (that seems to come up for some reason). Everything else is negotiable, and I'd love to hear what your kinky interests are. I am very cautious in terms of privacy (both mine and yours).
I just found this site and was curious how it was. I was previously on Collarme/Collarspace and a few other (defunct) sites.