I took a long a hiatus from this site and my search for a “Dommy” due to real life issues and obligations. During this time, I learn a lot about myself and what I am looking for in life. Anyway, let me about myself. Not my most favorite thing to do but seeing this is the first thing you see of me I will go ahead.
I am 32 about to be 33 here very shortly, where does the time go? I have a pretty average build. I just completed my second engineering degree from Washington State University, and I am starting my career. My personality is that of a laid-back, care-free person but don’t assume that I am un-motivated or lazy. I am very much the opposite. I love to laugh and just hang-out with people. It doesn’t matter what we are doing. Building bonds with the people I love and care for is important to me. I prefer quality over quantity. I have few friends, but I know without a doubt that I can count on them even if we haven’t spoken for years.
A short list of my interests are:
I enjoy reading for fun. I like to lose myself in a good book. I have a very good imagination. I can put myself into the shoes of the protagonist or antagonist very easily. Because of this 90% of the time I prefer the book to the movie.
I’m a huge water sports fan. I can spend all day at the lake or river. This plays a large part in my life goals.
I’m going to stop there for now. I may add later but I am a little old fashion. I like to chat with people one on one.
One of the key aspects to me is that I derive great pleasure in pleasing my partners. The pleasure doesn’t have to be from a sexual act. It could be just us setting down and having a chat about a topic that one of us in interested in or wanting to learn more about.
I am new to the BDSM life but the concept of giving myself over to someone to please. Is something I would enjoy and love doing. I understand that people over sexualize BDSM and giving up control to someone. I see it as building one of the strongest bonds a person outside the military can achieve. This goes for both the owner as well for the slave. Both parties need to be i in sync with each other