Although, I have been a mental dom unknowingly for many years. Longest dynamic was about 8 years. I decided to find my match in BDSM communities.
I am not experienced in BDSM sexual tools. I don't mind doing most of it to sub/slave if that is their needs. But it wouldn't turn me on. I am more of a mental dominance so talking, mentally dominating you are more up my alley. Getting you to do things without hesitation also works. That I know.
My previous dynamic has told me that they have gotten unqiue and great pleasure orgasm unlike anything before as I mentally fuck you before anything else.
That said. As much as I like sexual things I prefer a sub/slave who is of servitude in domestic traditional area. Not just in bed. I work a lot. Maybe you work too. I build businesses time to time. I learn a lot. Improve myself a lot. To be a better person, man and dom. So, support in these areas would greatly free up my time and energy to focus on my sub/slave too.
I can do vanilla things too both in bed and outside.
However, I keep attracting fake submissive, selfish or inexperienced ones. Last one being fine to a degree.
I consider myself a kind, caring yet strict dom at least. I am not selfish so I will ask and learn about your needs and want to see if we are a good fit.
However, I am not looking for purely sexual BDSM but a fulltime lifestyle of mutual and shared partnership. I would like to be able to trust, know and depend on my sub/slave and her to devote herself to me. Maybe even have children and family if she is proven to be worthy of such commitment and responsibility.
What else?
I am 39. Lived in different countries. I have 2 vocational degree. 1 bachelor. And 2 masters degree. I enjoy fantasy, and sci fi tv shows and movies most. I enjoy anime and gamss too. I enjoy war history. I like chess. I like deep meaningful conversation. I enjoy traveling. I go to the gym and try my best to cook fresh food everyday. I learn a bit of painting, photography and looking to learn martial art soon. I prefer non-fiction books over fiction. I work in the game industry and on side I run online educational business.
My partners describe me as:
Very structured, disciplined, hard worker, good listener, spontaneous, loving, passionate caring, generous, genuine. Very professional and productive.
If you only want sexual BDSM. I am not interested.
If you have kids and looking for sugar daddy to help raise someone else's kid. I am not interested.
If you are not willing to serve me domestically I will have a hard time connecting with you, as it is one area that would make me the happiest. Even more than sex everyday.
If you are not emotionally stable and need constant messaging, I am probably not interested unless you offer enough for that.
I probably would not want pee, poop, blood and those kind of things.
December 2024 - I have been busy with 2 girls and still have the same one since 2022 also. I have since moved to Portugal. I am currently enjoying beach life and sun.
June 2023 - I have been busy with one sub slave for 8 months or so. Helping her experience her true senses and self in a safe and slow way.
Aug 2022 I have had 2 submissive/slaves this year. 1 was a fake narcissistic woman who just cared about her own sexual needs. The other was too inexperienced about herself although naturally serving she also served her family all the time.
First test at 02/11/2020 == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Owner 97% Master/Mistress 94% Dominant 88% Voyeur 76% Boy/Girl 70% Sadist 63% Primal (Hunter) 58% Degrader 47% Experimentalist 43% Vanilla 43% Daddy/Mommy 39% Switch 37% Exhibitionist 36% Brat tamer 23% Rigger 4% Submissive 3% Rope bunny 2% Brat 1% Ageplayer 0% Slave 0% Degradee 0% Primal (Prey) 0% Masochist 0% Pet 0% Non-monogamist