I’m 22, Black, about 5’5, and in college. I’m very introverted and quiet. Speaking on the phone and video calls make me very uneasy, at least until I get comfortable with a person. I’ve never been in a ”real” relationship before (vanilla or bdsm), not because I don't want one but usually because the timing isn't right. I enjoy playing video games, reading, logic puzzles, anime, and I'm trying to get back into writing.
I’m very inexperienced. The little experience I've had is from quick vanilla hookups, usually I just let the guy do what he wants and that's that. I came across BDSM and DDLG in a book (not 50 shades) and was very much interested in learning more. Hopefully I'll be able to learn more while being on this site.