Been into BDSM for a few years now and have had some online and some IRL relationships with a strict BDSM focus. I’ve tried only a handful of things, but I’m open to try countless others. If you name it, chances are that I’ll give it a try.
Im into controlling environments, where the amount of control and everything is up to you. I am a very affectionate person. So, I respect boundaries and look forward to aftercare just as much as any sub/slave. I need to make sure my girl is okay, and then even better than okay.
I’m open to subs and slaves, but what each of those looks like varies depending on the person I’m currently speaking to.
Hopefully I’ll find someone who wants to take BDSM beyond just the bedroom, and is in it for the long haul. I’m not looking to speed date, I’m looking for someone who would like to build a future with me.