Vidar

Maryland, United States
About me
I am a 55yrs old, 6'6" tall, 260lbs, muscular, widower. I work out regularly and keep myself in excellent shape. Definitely an introvert. I am an Rf Engineer in my real life and considered highly intelligent. I love everything about women, their bodies, thought processes, emotions and I have traditional values and beliefs. I treat them with respect and caring. I believe, I am a great communicator, and always listen to my partner, to ensure a pleasurable experience. I am single, trustworthy, and discreet. I believe that the D/s relationship is a much deeper relationship than any vanilla relationship. It takes a greater emotional, physical and psychological bond in order to facilitate and nurture the relationship. A much deeper level of trust. It, therefore should not be entered into lightly.
BDSM and me
I realize that I still have a lot to learn about the D/s lifestyle but I am quite experienced in the art of dominating a woman. I am attracted to all aspects of domination, P/e, Shibari, restraint, spanking, humiliation, degradation, role play, ect. I'm obviously open to suggestions and will work with my sub to provide the best experience possible. Submission to me means 'effortless perfection'. Submission is quiet in refinement, noble and fulfilling in a manner that is not shaped exclusively by analytical thought. Submission implies 'a simplicity of spirit; an attitude of refinement without pretension, honesty without apology, beauty without artifice. To attain or achieve a state of inner peace, but submission must be found, not "won". Submission is a concept that suggests complete harmony, tranquility, and balance. It is "eloquent silence" and "understanding, rather than knowledge."
Limits
Limits will be primarily based on my partner. All limits will be strictly adhered too!
What's new
Will update later.
Update date
Apr 13, 2023
Member since
Nov 20, 2020
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