Hi, you can call me G. I've known about my BDSM desires for a while, but usually just watched porn/played games, so deciding to join this community is a big leap for me! I'm not really sure what I'm looking for - nothing in person (at the moment). I'm in a relationship with an asexual so things are pretty tough there, and as he's the only person I've been with I'm pretty nervous about meeting anyone else (although we've agreed that's ok!). Sort of new to this so always keen to make friends. I am pansexual, so gender doesn't matter to me. I am not really sure what else to put here so any questions don't be shy (really don't be shy). I am usually quite introverted and IRL I'm pretty geeky - board games, escape rooms, reading etc. Being behind a screen makes things easier though, so feel free to ask me anything and I'm happy to be 100% honest!
I am a sub through and through. For me, that means trusting someone enough to relinquish control, believing they know what's best for me. I want to be cared for and looked after, even if that means being punished sometimes and used as toy. I want someone to take charge and tell me what they want. I love the idea of being tided up and blindfolded, and letting someone have their way with me. Use me as your toy and take your time, but look after me. I'm on the fence with being degraded - you can call me a slut, but I don't want to be told I'm trash. My big turn ons are toys and my nipples - I have orgasmed by nipple play alone before. I also love being stuffed full of...things. I don't think there's even a name for that kink, but there you go.
I'm 5ft3, size 14 so curvy - I think my boobs are my best assets, but I've got a decent butt if you're into that. My ideal Dom (Master) is someone who would look after me and my needs, so I don't need to think about it.
Scat, piss and blood - no thanks. I have a phobia of needles in general, so they're out too. I also want sex play to stay in the bedroom - I'm not interested in being a slave 24/7, being given tasks or being controlled day to day.