I'm by day the clean cut unassuming guy you maybe saw but didn't see when you were in high school. I don't have a group I fall in but I don't seem out of place in any.
Word smithing is my professional obligation but it carries over to topics more my choosing after hours. I find endeavors like cooking, soft blankets, wood working, and massage to awaken my senses that are less commonly used as well.
I try to be an open book so crack me open and see whats inside.
I am at my core a spanko, I discovered kink in high school at the advent of the internet becoming and actual thing. My interest in spanking was deepend when I found a spanking site after lurking on blogs. I discovered I enjoy other perversions and have explored beyond which led me to Fet and then here.
I've found since I stopped forcing myself into the box of self expectation that I feel more enjoyment within my interactions and within myself. As a result based on the energies I've allowed myself to be on either or both sides of the / as I interact.
I feel that RACK is crucial within dynamics no matter the form it takes. It is crucial also that consent of all persons involved whether direct or indirect in a scene is acquired, failing to do so is actually a crime.