TranceForMe

dom male

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A wonderful, warm and enchanting welcome to my profile.

I am TFM, a German Gentleman, Hypnotist, and Dominant. You will notice that I am a very calm person who enjoys messing with your mind while at the same time caressing your cheeks and holding you close. For as long as I can remember I have had a big interest in psychology, especially NLP (Neurolinguistic Programming). It's just so fascinating to see how a simple choice of words can make your partner twist and turn with arousal and desire.

Apart from my interest in the human mind, I am currently studying IT, making my own website and games. Needless to say, I enjoy playing games with my squad too. If I am in the right feeling and mood I enjoy playing guitar and listening to all kinds of music. (Rammstein, Nomy, Richter, Skillet, Linkin Park, etc. really no specific genre). I love dogs and always give them a pet or belly rub if possible. Sport has been a big part of my life, I have been on an international level in karate, but duo to college have now shifted to teaching and training others alongside my own trainer.

There is much more you can and will discover about me, simply head into a conversation with me. My PM´s are always open for friendly and welcoming people.
(For being able to communicate with me, please use the at the bottom listed blog of mine, as there is no other way on here if not one of us has premium)

Like I already mentioned I am a very calm person, which also applies to my dominant characteristics. You will never see me use yelling, anger or physical strength to bring my sub to obedience. If one of those is needed to get the sub to follow along (outside of consensual physical play) then something is very wrong in the relationship. And most often it's not the sub's fault.

My playstyle is split into two parts.
First of those and for me, the most important is my caring and protecting Daddy dom style. Dominating my partner, no matter in which relationship, can never work if there is no counterpart to it. Even in very sadistic and/or humiliation based relationships, I think especially there its needed that the sub is taken good care of. Aftercare is something never to be ignored.
Alongside that, I simply love adorable and cute girls, and what best way to enjoy your cute side than to cuddle and playfully mess with you while holding you in my arms and protecting you. There is much more to it, but you will get to know this side of me soon enough.

Second, comes the dominant play style. This includes all my dominant tendencies. No matter if dominating, controlling, degrading, owning or playing with, or brainwashing my partner. You will quickly notice that my playstyle is very focused on mental domination and mental play. Like you already read, I am a hypnotist with the love for the human mind and how to mess with it. This very strongly manifests in my playstyle. Hypnosis will almost always be used, no matter if you are consciously aware of it or if it will be done subconsciously, simply because it's such a great addition to BDSM.
Alongside it, hypnosis allows you to experience literally everything you can think about as long as you can imagine it. Just close your eyes for a second and let your thoughts wander, how often did you have a fantasy pop into your mind which you quickly dismissed because it's so unrealistic or unlikely or maybe even completely impossible in the real world. All those fantasies and more can become reality. Which in my opinion, is the best thing in the world. No need to hide anything anymore, simply drop, relax and enjoy.
There is so so so much more for you to understand and discover, to enjoy and experience, that it's not possible for me to write everything down here. If your interest is peaked, the best thing to do is to leave me a message with your questions, or even a simple "Hello, I would love to further talk about hypnosis!" is enough. Everyone is welcomed, no matter what you think about yourself or if it's okay. It IS. So be a good girl and follow along.


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Welcome dear reader


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Short summary upfront
Looking for a very open-minded female sub/slave/doll, no experience needed in BDSM or hypnosis, pictures are not necessary but appreciated, play-relationships as well as serious relationships possible. No toys or pictures needed.
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~Introducing myself~
Now that I have your full attention, because you are reading my whole ad and didn't stop after the short summary, it already feels much easier and better to simply read along and let yourself be intrigued.

So let me introduce myself.
I am Nico, a German gentleman, hypnotist, and dominant. Publicly I am known as a calm, confident, and polite person. Passions of mine are sport, mainly karate and climbing, Guitar and music in general, and Gaming/IT.
But anyone who knows my private side, knows I am much more than the naked eye sees at first glance. Because I have a naturally high libido, it's not surprising that sexuality plays a huge part in my life. I have been in the BDSM community since my early teens and have been interested in hypnosis even longer. Instead of simple and mostly physical play though, I use my interest and knowledge in hypnosis to enjoy mental play, which is far more intense and wonderful than most people realize. Jet everyone could potentially enjoy it. Many twisted kinks, fantasies, and desires reside in my mind, just waiting for a willing subject to be toyed, pleasured, and enjoyed with. Besides my dominant, controlling and sometimes sadistic side, I also have a very caring and protective one which is why I almost always bring a Daddy/little girl dynamic into my relationships.

~What is Hypnosis~
Now that you know more about me, maybe feeling even more intrigued, maybe wanting to know more about what I am looking for, there is one important thing to explain beforehand. What is hypnosis?

So very very often hypnosis is wrongly thought of as something either magical or something fake. And you're not at fault, film and cliches brought this common misconception into society's minds. But the truth is, hypnosis, the state of trance you enter during it, is one of the most common things in your life. Even more common and natural than breathing. Some people are righteously confused right now because they don't know what a trance is. A trance is nothing more than a state of focus. This focus can be on words, a pendulum, a voice, eyes, etc. literally anything. Maybe you remember reading a book or text, and being so focused on it that the surroundings seem to disappear as if you didn't notice anything going on outside only what you read. This state of focus, is a trance. And Everyone enters it multiple times a day. And through specific techniques and phrasings, this trance is deepened to the point where your subconscious mind accepts suggestions. This is then called hypnosis.
Two misconceptions are very important to me to be cleared up. Even though the word sleep is closed, you're not actually asleep. You will at all times be able to know what's going on, what you are doing, and what is happening. Because after all, a trance is a state of focus.
Also, you are unable to be forced to do anything you really don't want to do the brain has primal safeties that keep you from doing anything you truly don't want to do.

~What am I looking for~
After a long but needed explanation, you are now able to understand what I am looking for without being deceived by society's cliches about hypnosis and can instead keep a happy open mind, allowing you to maybe make experiences you previously only dreamt about making.

I am very open-minded and enjoy getting to know and making new experiences with new people, so what I am looking for in a relationship very much depends on my partner. With some, they make a great play partner, but it doesn't work beyond that. With some, it clicks and further connections can be established. That's why I don't like closing off possibilities.
Maybe you only wanted to ask a question at first, maybe you planned on only having a short term relationship. But in the end, you can only know what will happen, if you give in, try and enjoy it, follow along and make experiences you would have missed out on otherwise. So I encourage you, If I as a person and hypnosis in connection with BDSM sounds interesting in any way to you, maybe already making you feel a little tingle between your legs, shoot for it, you know you won't regret it.
Besides the future of our relationship, I am looking for an open-minded woman, someone who can let herself go and make new experiences. This doesn't mean needing to do anything I say, it simply means accepting new interests, kinks, and fantasies. And if those are in the range of comfort, maybe try them out. Because hypnosis relies so much on how open your subconscious mind is, it's an important aspect.

As you can guess by now, I am of course looking for someone with at least a slight interest in hypnosis, whom I can answer questions, help deepen her curiosity and maybe even make her experience it.

~Play examples~
Examples of what you might experience. Those reach from simply answering questions and making you understand your desires, over starting slow with relaxation hypnosis and deepening giving you a feel for it, improving to real hypnosis sessions with suggestions, training to reach goals, up to sexual play with pet play, sensibility play, orgasm denial and teasing, mental sadism, conditioning, orgasming on command, etc.

Remember, those are just some example of what MIGHT come up, what actually does will be talked about beforehand and will stay inside both our limits

~You should be~
If the intriguing feeling from before has increased, very good, if it hasn't then you will notice it did so in some seconds.
Now that we talked about me, let's talk about you next.

Like I already mentioned and explained, you should be open-minded. Though you don't need to have much or even any experience at all in either BDSM or hypnosis, simple curiosity and interest are all we need. You should have at least some free time in the week, everyone agrees that if hardly a conversation is done and no playtime can be arranged, it's not worth it. Besides that, you should have the possibility of at least some privacy for yourself where you won't get distracted or interrupted. Toys aren't needed, just like pictures or showing yourself, but both are appreciated.

Everyone is a jewel, no matter how shy, what experience, how smart or how you look. Everyone, yes everyone, is accepted. And I say that because I know how many raw and really big gems are hidden beneath the polished but very small gems.



~Now enjoy~
If you made it to this point, very good, the curiosity and maybe shy arousal slowly rising up inside you, show you and will make you notice sooner or later, that such an experience which I am offering, is what you are looking for.


Have a wonderful day
Nico

Blood, Scat, "Illegal activities"

These are my Kinks/Turn ons, not all of them give me an instant raging boner, but are simply things I sexually enjoy. Alongside that, my kinks won't be listed in any particular order. Rather I simply collected my thoughts and which kinks came to my mind, so they will appear pretty random, but if there are connections I will still try to mention it and explain everything.

~Important, just because I have a kink for it(which is pretty much everything) doesn't mean you need to have it too or even have it inside your limits for us to be~
~able to have a great time and enjoy each other. I simply love having and in return also giving a good overview of kinks~

 
-Stockings/Pantyhose. Especially in black nylon, but other materials and colors too.
-Along with it, knee-high socks in all colors and especially cute ones, but they can be used in a sexy way too.
-Feet, though not licking or worshipping myself, but seeing a female do so herself. Kissing, licking, worshipping. Lesbian like feet worship too, no matter if both are my subs
-Ahegao and Eyeroll. Seeing it while sex or during bj or even just normally.
-In combination also Cosplay/ Alternative / and E-Girls. All of those in a cute but sexy way.
-Redhairs, not orange-red(which can be sexy too though) but bright strong red together with black makeup and clothes. 
-Other colors are blue and purple.
-Drooling, on your own tits and self as well in general.
-Tongues, seeing the tongue lick, cover something like my cock in saliva, etc. Wrapping around it, twirling and truly loving whatever it's worshipping.
-Wetness, Wet Cunt, Wet Body, it can be oil, water, or pleasure juice. 
-Leggings, tight and body shaping. Also, Leggings getting wet through many possible ways.
-Squirting, not in my face, but the wet overflow showing incredible pleasure.
-Orgasm overflow/orgasm torture. And in combination Orgasm Denial
-Sensory deprivation, making you overflow with pleasure and seeing you whimper and beg from almost orgasming pleasure only from one single flick of your nipple.
-Teasing and Edging, keeping my sub on the edge of orgasm, teasing her over and over, and then finally giving her what she craved. Or not
-Being Sadistic, no surprise. Though not inflicting pain, more in the sense of teasing and being evil.
-High waist panties, thongs, lace underwear. Round ass and round waists but still trained.
-Brainwashing and mind-controlling someone. Both while they are aware, maybe even want it, and while unaware. Slowly seeing the effects
-Converting people, breaking their minds.
-Mindfucking people, with my cock, pleasure, hypnosis, and toys.
-Mindless and empty sub, seeing a shell and a puppet stare blankly off into nothingness. 
-Making my sub a drone, a robot to control.
-Seeing you being nymphomanic, always horny and wet on command for me.
-Having a harem, multiple subs to enjoy together with. Also having an online site, slowly converting people, making new slaves who spread the pleasure more etc.
-Cute and little but sexy. My sub being cute and adorable, looks behavior speech and everything, but her also being sexually active, showing sexuality.
-In combination with that, my sub being seductive and making advances. Giving building the sexual situation.
-What also does it in a similar sense, having someone look sexually, slutty and seductive at me. A good look and facial expression can do very much.
-Moaning. The slightly overdone moaning but not too much that it's incredibly obvious it faked, A cute and adorable moaning letting me know she's dropping into pleasure deeply.
-Showoffs, exhibitionistic girls are a huge sign of sexuality and sluttiness which is always loved.
-Like already said, sluttiness, being a little whorey in a good way. Not being completely like an asshole, cheating, and being untruthful. But being sexually active, behaving slutty and like a little cute whore, like my loyal little baby.
-A good blowjob, eye contact, smile, ahegao/eyeroll, deepthroat, the tongue around the tip like a good girl.
-Good sex, doing it together, not needing to do all the work, but completely enjoying each other together and seeing your hot body in just the right positions.
-Titjob and anal, though something i never experienced personally and like leg and footjob something i would love to try.
-Sexy masturbation, with vibrators especially wands and dildos entering your wet princess parts.
-Obvious things like the right positions and posture, lingerie etc.
-Strip dances/pole dances, using your bodys curves and showing them of proudly. 
-Dumb but smart enough to be able to normally talk. More like a giggly dumb having no thoughts.
-Good makeup, especially with the eyes and colorful lipstick
-Pigtails, braids, long hair in general.
-Cute Freckles
-High heels, Outside and during sex.
-Light degradation and humiliation but always caring and loving. More in the dirty teasing sense
-Sometimes bladder control, but just very light.
-Body writing and signs of ownership on subs body
-Making the sub addicted to something and seeing her mind change, her craving and wanting, her begging for my cock as an example
-Training my sub, body, mind, clothing style, behavior, speech, skills etc.
-Shibari, artful Bondage
-Bondage toys, toys in general.
-Daddy/little relationship
-Slave/master relationship
-Princess but still slut sub
-Bimbo sub, but not too much, just a little tint of it, sexy body, dumb, etc. But not too unrealistic.
-Sexy gamer girl as a sub/ sexy anime girl as a sub.
-Pet sub, pet play in general.
-Publicplay/semipublic play
-Having a maid sub
-Having a doll/Toy sub.
-Hucow
-Cuckquean
-Lesbian interaction / sex

~More to come and to be added eventually

Feb 19, 2021

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