mr_mage
dom male

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Greeley, Colorado, United States
Age
36
Relationship status
In a polyamorous relationship
About me
     I have lived in Colorado my whole life and plan on staying here.  I am married to my wonderful and beautiful wife and together we have four cats, two young dogs, a handful of fish, and a seemingly endless flock of chickens.

     "Make it Work." is the motto I live by.  The way I see it everyone has that capacity, it is simply a matter of finding the way or know-how. 
In general, I feel that there are a great many things that can and should be understood.  Therefore I am constantly learning about an endless array of topics, acquiring whatever value may come from knowing them.  In short, I believe that everything has a use, regardless of what sense it may make at the time.

     I've been told many times that I am a Jack-of-all-trades and I've even been called a wizard on several occasions (and not the Harry Potter kind).  I know and enjoy the supernatural, esoteric and arcane though most would never guess it.  Woodworking and metal-smithing are things I do in my spare time as well as tabletop gaming, useful DIY, home improvements, varying forms of personal development, and 3D printing and design. Truthfully the list is nigh endless.

     For those who find use in it, I am a Pisces (Sun Sign), Aquarius (Moon Sign), Aries (Ascendant) and all the descriptors seem to fit well enough.
BDSM and me
     I have always had many fetishes but it was my wife that started our explorations into BDSM years ago.  We quickly determined we have a DD/lg dynamic.  She is rather young at heart and I enjoy helping others grow and learn more about themselves so it just worked out.  We don’t get to officially play as much as we would like but we are working on changing that.

     I'm very lucky to have an amazing wife who has consented to some flexibility to our monogamy, so if you're in the NOCO area hit me up.  There are reasonably strict guidelines/rules and it isn't something I take lightly but I think that goes to show the amount of trust and love we have in each other.

     I view myself as hetero-flexible (I have yet to find a guy that interests me enough to move myself into the “bi” category.) Depending on my mood I can generally find some form of interest in anyone.

     Often I prefer more mellow, seductive play. Though some occasional fire and electricity keep things exciting on occasion. Since I'm rather handy I like to make my toys if it is sensible to do so. I also like to learn what makes people tick and I will use that knowledge. 

For Those who may care to know...
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
91% Voyeur
86% Primal (Hunter)
78% Daddy/Mommy
74% Owner
72% Exhibitionist
70% Dominant
62% Non-monogamist
60% Vanilla
59% Sadist
59% Switch
58% Experimentalist
Limits
Hard limits - Scat, CBT,

Soft limits - Watersports, Blood
What's new
After more than a year off of work, I've landed the most enjoyable job I've had to date. I'm now learning locksmithing. Now I can get those handcuffs off even after losing the keys, lol. I don't know about that chastity belt though. I'm pretty sure someone locked that for a good reason. jk.
Update date
Jul 4, 2022
Member since
Sep 13, 2016
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