Phanes57
dom male

Michigan, United States
Premium, Online
Audio recording
Relationship status
Single
About me
I am a 62 year old Dominant/Master. I am a 20 year retired Air Force veteran. I am fun loving, enjoy making others smile, always willing to have a listening ear for those who may need it, believes in truth, loyalty, respect. My interests outside of lifestyle are; bowling, golf, cycling, cornhole, camping, taking walks hand in hand with my significant other, spending quiet time at home and enjoying the company of the one I'm with, cherishing and spoiling the one who has given themselves to me as a woman and a submissive. I always see the woman first and all that she is, before the caring, pleasing submissive that she may be within the dynamic. Once I have be given the privilege to call a woman as my "one"; I give her my full attention and ensure that all her needs and desires are taken in consideration and met to my best abilities. I will care for her, listen to her, tend to all her needs, ensure she knows that she is valued as a woman as well as a submissive and appreciated for all she does for me. Above all, I will keep her safe.  
BDSM and me

5/17/2018 Update: I have over 30 years experience within the BDSM lifestyle, knowledgable in all aspects. I have experience as a Daddy Dom to a Sadist. My only limits are that of the "one" I may have as a submissive/slave. I enjoy administering spankings, flogging, whips, anal play, breast play, edging, forced orgasms, and much more. Anyone wanting to know more; contact Me and let's talk.
   I am a caring, understanding, attentive, and loyal Dominant; who gives His all to the "one" I may be with as My submissive/slave. I am good listener, snuggler, fair but has no problem issuing discipline where discipline is deserved. Any submissive/slave who decides to prove themselves worthy of My time and attention; let it be known, while getting to know each other online; My one expectation at the beginning of any consideration of such talks is: I am very hands on Dominant and will expect to establish further communications via Skype or other means to help verify you are who you say you are and to further build on the bond and connections to determine if there is the chemistry necessary for a sucessful union/relationship. This will be done via voice and/or video shortly after conversations regarding to developing of a D/s relationship is discussed. Whenever not possible because of job or other reasonable excuses; I will be informed and further communications will continue via text when able. 
I believe in trust and truth, respect and loyalty within a relationship. Trust being the biggest of those traits!!! Once trust is broken, rarely can it be regained!!! Always be honest and upfront with Me and show Me the respect I give to you; then W/we will have a wonderful journey. My expectations are to know you on a personal level First before entering any discussion regarding the D/s realm. To build that trust, bond, loyalty and earn that respect between U/us that is paramount to obtaining your "gift" of your submission.  You have the power over in deciding if/when I have earned the privilege of you giving yourself fully; mind and body. My end game in any relationship is to bring any online relationship to a real time, long-term relationship. If this is not your end game, I ask you not approach Me. Thank you.

 PS, I ask that anyone who shows interest it's free of any other obligations to anyone else, is in a position to fully commit to a relationship,and  if necessary, be willing to relocate to bring any relationship to reality. I will be open to that as well. 


Limits
My limits are only of those of whom I have as as submissive/slave.
Update date
Monday, October 28, 2019
Member since
Saturday, October 14, 2017
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