Would just like to explore my sexuality and experience something different, something a little bit out of my comfort zone.
I would really like to find someone to guide me, someone to show me things and pleasures I can't even imagine right now. Looking only for online fun at the moment.
I’m new to BDSM and eager to explore, but I’m looking for a gentler approach to submission. I’m not into violence or humiliation; I’m more drawn to sensual domination. The thought of giving up control scares me, but I can’t deny how much it excites me.
I’m curious about submission within the bedroom, starting with tasks or challenges to ease into the dynamic. I’m not sure about full-time submission, but I’d love to explore it in a sexual context.
For me, dominance is about guidance and trust — not force. I want to give control to someone who can show me new experiences, push my limits gently, and make me crave more.
I’ve always fantasized about being controlled during sex, using toys, and exploring pleasure through pain. I’m not particularly into pain for its own sake, but the idea of taking it for someone else’s pleasure — especially in sensitive areas — really excites me. I’m open to exploring different ways of creating pain or discomfort on my genital areas, as long as it’s done creatively, with care, and in a way that enhances the experience. Nothing too extreme, but definitely something that challenges my limits in new ways.
I don’t respond well to dominance expressed in a harsh or demanding way. If you say “I request you to do this or else,” my instinct would be to rebel. But if you say “I’d like you to try this,”
or “It would please me if you did this,” I’d be much more willing to push my limits.
Even in submission, I want to be treated as an equal and with respect. I’m ready to give control, but I also need to feel safe, valued and cared for.
Here is the starting point. Please have in mind it's all just theory for me for now. Things may change over time...
LIMITS:
- calls
- Humiliation of any kind (verbal, physical, in public or private);
- beating
- Marks, permanent damage, blood, cutting, piercing, tattoos, needles, branding, fire play...
- Pissing, scat and anything to do with that kind of thing
- Choking, breath play
- Public scenes, exposing of any kind, exhibitionism
- Severe pain
- Sexual deprivation or orgasm denial long term
- Orders concerning everyday life like what to wear, what to eat, finances...
- Drugs