Master Xoobs (54) has been a Dungeon Master (Dom) for many years and can often be found lurking in the dark corners of one of the staggering number of commercial dungeons around London brandishing all manner of terrifying looking devices.
When he’s feeling more benevolent he’s inhabiting hotels or private houses or hosting private bdsm events.
He was the author in the 1990s of a number of books on Subspace & Aftercare and the psychological well-being of the Submissive as well as Submissive and Slave Boundaries and a guide to Submissive psychology and has assisted a number of Submissives in recovery following botched or abusive behaviour by other so-called Masters. He is also trained in psychology and trauma-led psychological recovery so your mind is also safe with him. He was also a stage hypnotist from 1985 to 1990.
In vanilla-life, he’s fully employed – within a professional job and at a very senior level. Master Xoobs is a youthful 50, being born in the same year as England won the world cup and in his youth was a professional sportsman. (Unfortunately years of being behind a desk busy mean that he now carries a few extra pounds).
Happy to receive chat
Master Xoobs (see xoobs.com) is interested in Submissives or women wanting to be submissive up to 40 years old and with body sizes up to size 10, (particularly petite girls from the ORIENTAL subcontinent).
If you’re new to the BDSM arena, he frequently provides a non-penetrative introduction to dungeons for beginners (although the submissive will be nude) who want an introduction to BDSM and Dungeons but aren’t yet ready for penetrative sex within that context.
AS YOU READ MY LIKES ETC, PLEASE BEAR IN MIND THAT I AM VERY DOMINANT AND THEREFORE LIKES SUCH AS BONDAGE, CAGES, CANES MEANS ME TYING YOU UP, ME PUTTING YOU IN CAGES, ME CANING YOU etc
Interested in real-life BDSM - not online relationships - but happy to start with online with a view to moving to real life BDSM.
Blood Play,
Homosexuality,
Scat,
Skin Penetration with needles
Master (54 professional person) seeks slim intelligent Female submissive Age 18-40 (size 10 or below - the smaller for better ), caucasian/asian for long term relationship
Master: Experienced, educated (PhD law), white, English, male (49) (been running a Dungeon for many years).
Guaranteed confidentiality and secrecy.
- A desire to be spanked, either with my hand or my riding crop (PS this WILL sting!)
- A desire to be tied up in discrete public places
- Expect consensual forced safe sex.
- Expect to be controlled,
- Expect to have your limits stretched
- Fulfil your fantasies with no judgment and no drama, and imposed choices.
This will be a relationship created around trust respect and communication and not one looking to abuse. I know over the years that a real submissive gives the gift of submission.
I'm looking after a submissive girl who wants to lose control of her life and needs a firm (ouch!) hand to guide her and someone I can help grow as a sub.
As a Dom I will guide you in your submission and I'm happy if you want to continue to live on your own, but would expect by next year that you would live with me as a submissive at least one week out of two. I will be your sole reference and you will be monogamous to me and my other sub (f), who is a female brat.
By then I will manage everything (except your career, which you can continue to run) so you can feel safe in submission. You will tell me what's in your mind without worrying about being judged and you'll be able to experience EVERY one of your fantasies.
During play sessions, right from the start, I will be mean, treat you with no mercy, verbally degrade you to the point you feel useless or I may treat you as a valuable and delicate flower, depending on my whim. I want to be your stimulus. I want a sub that actually submits to me. It's OK id you just obey because that's what you're supposed to do at first but I want to build a relationship where you feel comfortable enough to show your true utterly submissive self.
It will take time as a submissive relationship takes time .I will be patient.Expect humiliation and control, orgasm control, denial and edges.
As a Dom, your safety and psychology is my responsibility but expect me to test your submission with vaginal and anal sex, oral, spanks, slaps, bondage, bodywritting, semi public nudity, watersports, hypnosis and, in general, almost everything, although I stop short of blood, knives, needles, permanent, extreme torture or things that will damage you.
You will not be expected to like everything, so your no-go zones will be respected, but don't expect to be talen on unless you're willing to try lots of things from early on.
Please feel free to contact me......but
.......pleae be serious if you are contacting me, I get rrather fed up of little brratty subs who contacft me promisinig every manner of thiings and a rapid meetnig who then as soon as a meetnig isi arranged, cancel it and then keep avoidnig meeting...I've heard about every excuse on the planet!