In a polyamorous relationship
I've been in the lifestyle since I was young, made a lot of mistakes, learned, and now have established a good sense of what works and what doesn't.
Not into inflicting or receiving pain beyond discipline and maybe clamps, with the exception of some body mod. Much more into the mental aspect of D/s.
I think I fall into a sort of common group. No scat, kids, animals, blood, and not into breath play. Other than that there is a whole world of possibilities.
I have a sub/slave and with me at work so much we want another person (probably female but possibly open to male or trans). Not for a fling but hopefully someone who will become a very permanent part of our relationship.