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Wycked Pixiesub female
North Carolina, United States
Wycked Pixie
Age
49
Relationship status
Single
About me
Brand new to the cage so this is just a big inning that I expect to expand and change over time...
I recently returned to the US after living in Europe for almost a decade. A lot has changed since I’ve been gone! Or maybe I’ve changed a lot having been gone. I haven’t decided which yet. Being a world-traveling urbanite, I’ve always lived in major metropolitans like Philadelphia, NYC, London, Milan, etc., so NC is quite an adjustment. “Why NC?” is a common question I get. Because family needed me close by and family is important.
I’ve been told often that I intimidate men. Not that I try to, by any means. But this does make it a bit difficult to be a sub at heart and find a Dom who isn’t intimidated. My personality is very extroverted. I can walk into a crowded room and strike up conversations with just about anybody without feeling nervous or self conscious. Generally an optimist but with a tendency to bemoan ad nauseam anything I believe to be unfair or unjust. New experiences are thrill me so I love exploring people, places, cultures, ideas... just about anything that’s new to me and I get very excited and exuberant about it in the process.
I am a professional in a senior management role and the kind of person who is very dedicated to work during working hours. Maybe a little too dedicated because I forget to eat lunch most days. (I could definitely use some help with balance during the 9-5) I hold 2 master degrees for which I sometimes feel like I’ll never get those student loans paid off! (NOT asking for $$ and never would. The day I finally get done paying, I will feel even more accomplished then when I graduated.)
I have a dog and another puppy on the way. I took on the responsibility for their well being and I take this responsibility very seriously. Full disclosure: their needs come first in all things.
I recently returned to the US after living in Europe for almost a decade. A lot has changed since I’ve been gone! Or maybe I’ve changed a lot having been gone. I haven’t decided which yet. Being a world-traveling urbanite, I’ve always lived in major metropolitans like Philadelphia, NYC, London, Milan, etc., so NC is quite an adjustment. “Why NC?” is a common question I get. Because family needed me close by and family is important.
I’ve been told often that I intimidate men. Not that I try to, by any means. But this does make it a bit difficult to be a sub at heart and find a Dom who isn’t intimidated. My personality is very extroverted. I can walk into a crowded room and strike up conversations with just about anybody without feeling nervous or self conscious. Generally an optimist but with a tendency to bemoan ad nauseam anything I believe to be unfair or unjust. New experiences are thrill me so I love exploring people, places, cultures, ideas... just about anything that’s new to me and I get very excited and exuberant about it in the process.
I am a professional in a senior management role and the kind of person who is very dedicated to work during working hours. Maybe a little too dedicated because I forget to eat lunch most days. (I could definitely use some help with balance during the 9-5) I hold 2 master degrees for which I sometimes feel like I’ll never get those student loans paid off! (NOT asking for $$ and never would. The day I finally get done paying, I will feel even more accomplished then when I graduated.)
I have a dog and another puppy on the way. I took on the responsibility for their well being and I take this responsibility very seriously. Full disclosure: their needs come first in all things.
BDSM and me
Interested in monogamous D/s LTR.
NO ONLINE ONLY or strictly play partners.
I’m ok with long distance during Covid. There must be intention towards RL once travel is safer again.
I was introduced to BDSM by a boyfriend in my early 20’s. It was mostly in the bedroom. Since then, I’ve had a few D/s relationships and a few vanilla. The vanilla usually ended because my BDSM needs were repressed and left unfulfilled. I’ve come to the realization that I need a power exchange in a relationship to be happy. I need someone to provide guidance and structure in order to keep balance in my life. I like relinquishing control and get a little shiver when told what to do... even bigger shivers when praised for doing it well. I am a pleaser personality.
Some things I know I am into: PE, restraints, floggings, orgasm control / denial / permission, edging, breast / nipple play, sensory deprivation. Trust. Communication.
Would like to try rope bondage.
NO ONLINE ONLY or strictly play partners.
I’m ok with long distance during Covid. There must be intention towards RL once travel is safer again.
I was introduced to BDSM by a boyfriend in my early 20’s. It was mostly in the bedroom. Since then, I’ve had a few D/s relationships and a few vanilla. The vanilla usually ended because my BDSM needs were repressed and left unfulfilled. I’ve come to the realization that I need a power exchange in a relationship to be happy. I need someone to provide guidance and structure in order to keep balance in my life. I like relinquishing control and get a little shiver when told what to do... even bigger shivers when praised for doing it well. I am a pleaser personality.
Some things I know I am into: PE, restraints, floggings, orgasm control / denial / permission, edging, breast / nipple play, sensory deprivation. Trust. Communication.
Would like to try rope bondage.
Limits
Nothing illegal, no water sports or scat, blood play or anything leaving permanent scars / marks, punching or face slapping, humiliation (my inner critic is ruthless and doesn’t need any help).
No play partners or online only.
No play partners or online only.
Update date
Feb 28, 2021
Member since
Feb 27, 2021