AellaFinley
sub female

Bismarck, North Dakota, United States
Relationship status
Single
About me
I love to laugh and have a good time. I love dad jokes. I believe everything happens for a reason and what's meant to be will be.

I am a 35 year old female sub/little. Occasionally I can be a bit of a brat, but for the most part being obedient is pure bliss.
BDSM and me
I've been in the lifestyle for a few years. I have been submissive all my life and never knew the term for it until I was introduced to this beautiful way of life. I've always craved Dominance (even in high school), but apparently only attract the most vanilla of men. ? That being said, there is a lot I want and need to explore and experience.

I am a natural submissive and masochist with little tendencies. My little side is beginning to show herself more and more. She's sweet, silly, and sometimes a little sassy. I am shy and uncomfortable sharing pictures of myself with others. I am working up confidence to b able to share more.

I'm here to make friends and learn as much as I can about all of this wonderful, kinky stuff. As I mentioned before, there are a lot of things I want to learn about and explore. I am open to making new friends, but I will not tolerate disrespectful people.

I've always loved to learn new things, so even if it's not my kink, I still want to know all about it. I have a very curious mind and almost insatiable thirst for knowledge. I am interested in learning all the ins and outs of things, and I love to know the why behind them.

My vanilla side enjoys reading, board games, card games, escape rooms, trivia, and is a bit of an old soul. I prefer actual books and a pen and paper to kindles/tablets/computers. I believe manners need to make a big comeback. Too many people lack basic human decency.
Limits
My hard limits inlude: Scat, needle play, Electrical play, the silent treatment, and extreme anal play.
What's new
I am looking for someone between the ages of 30-45. If you're any older I appreciate your interest, but would appreciate even more if you respect that I'm not interested.

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Degradee
98% Masochist
98% Submissive
96% Boy/Girl
91% Rope bunny
57% Ageplayer
54% Experimentalist
52% Voyeur
38% Slave
34% Primal (Prey)
25% Exhibitionist
23% Brat
17% Vanilla
16% Pet
12% Non-monogamist
0% Switch
Update date
Nov 1, 2022
Member since
Mar 19, 2021
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