Looking for sub who wants to explore.
I am a 45 year old dom. I am married and this is a secret.
I am looking for a woman who wants to explore being a sub and wants to push her understanding of her needs. Ideally, we would talk via text or Facebook until we build a trust and understanding. Then we will meet in person regularly and privately for amazing sessions with ongoing conversations in-between.
I am interested and experienced in spanking (OTK and other), paddling, flogging, restraints, and deep submission from you. You do what I say, without fail, and leave your will at the door.
I am not looking for sex. I am not trying to get into your pants, I want to get into your mind.
This is about clarity and creating peace. It is about discipline and submission. Mostly, ultimately, it is about trust.
(If sex is a need of yours or if this is an eventual need of yours, let's talk about it, but this is not the purpose of me meeting you. It is certainly not a goal of mine and should not be a goal of yours. Sex is also a very broad term that refers to many actions and would need to be defined.)
You can be single, married, or other. I don't care how old you are, as long as you are over 18. Your looks do not matter to me either. Your limits are respected and your needs are not ignored.
What matters, is your passion for exploring submission. Maybe you are curious about this and want to see where it can take you. Maybe you are working some things out in your life and in your head. Maybe you are experienced and want to move forward with someone else.
I take this very seriously and am still a fun and funny guy. I take ownership of you as a real and serious responsibility. I am not interested in anything public or clubs. I am interested in a connection and privacy. I can provide the meeting space. I am a very normal person who does not stand out as someone who would be into this.
In the beginning, I am interested in a conversation that is open and honest. You do not have to be ready to meet right now. Let's do this right. I am your sanctuary and I am your safety. I am strict and I care. I am stern and you will feel take care of. Message me when you are ready.