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Hello. I am a 30 year old male dom. I first got interested in being dominant when I was 18 years old. It came as a sort of revelation, as I stumbled across my desire by accident and I realized that I really enjoyed it. Since then I have had several subs, both online and in real life. Unfortunately, like it is with most dating, the relationships eventually ended and I find myself looking for a new person I can commit time and effort towards. My hobbies are philosophy and psychology, and I very much adore all sciences, though I still find almost all sorts of things interesting. Speaking of philosophy, I enjoy teaching very much, and I am the kind of teacher that fully believes I have as much to learn from you as you have from me. Student and teacher compliment each other and since nobody is perfect, it's better to accept when you're wrong and get back on the right path instead of stubbornly refusing to be flexible. That does not mean, however, that I in any way will bend to poor arguments or false statements. I enjoy exploring what it means to be submissive, and I believe I have found something that could quite possibly be called "the philosophy of submissiveness". In my lessons, I take inspiration from ancient Greeks, Japanese bushido, butlers and religions. If any of that sounds interesting to you, don't hesitate to write me, and that also includes people not looking for a dom, as I would very much like to discuss ideas and learn as much as I can, just as much as I want to find a sub.

I have figured out that I am a mix between a daddy and a master throughout my years of experimentation. I get off sexually from ordering people around, degrading and training obedience. But I also require the more intimate aspects of a dom/sub relationship, and I'm looking for someone I can consider both my sub and very good friend. Therefore I'm looking for someone who wants to explore both of those aspects together with me, though I'm never going to judge if it's not for you after you try it. I have found that I have a tendency for control, and by that I don't mean full blown control right off the bat. What I mean is, I expect you to speak properly, adhere to some basic rules of common courtesy and generally behave as befits your stature as a sub. I do not like to argue about how polite/respectful you should be, as I expect any sub to have a modicum of good faith towards any dom. So I simply ask that you adhere to "when in Rome" and consider me Caesar.

Other than scat, I don't think I have any real limits. I am up for trying anything at least once, and I expect my sub to be interested in experimentation as well.

Sep 27, 2021

Mar 29, 2021